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Friday, July 07, 2023

Is liberal society making us ill?

Is liberal society making us ill?

As rates of Covid-19 infection started to dwindle, there came signs of a much stranger pandemic: long Covid and its host of long-term complications. You might think that, since men and older people suffer the most complications from the virus, most of those with long Covid would be older men. But this is not so. According to a US Census Bureau survey, women are almost twice as likely as men to report having it, while transgender people are significantly more likely to do so than all other groups. A German study, meanwhile, concluded “there is accumulating evidence that adolescent girls are at particular risk of prolonged symptoms”.

Given that Covid tends to affect men more than women, why would long Covid affect women more than men? And given that Covid complications are extremely rare in the young, why would teenage girls be disproportionately affected by long Covid? Finally, given that we can’t accuse a virus of transphobia, why would long Covid affect transgender people most?

The answer lies in the fact that long Covid is not a strictly physical phenomenon. A study of nearly two million people published in Nature found that people who reported three or more symptoms of long Covid included: 4.9% of people confirmed to have had Covid, and 4% of people with no evidence of having had Covid. So, reporting the symptoms of long Covid is only moderately associated with a prior Covid infection. In fact, long Covid correlates about as much with mood disorders as with Covid itself. One study found that people prone to anxiety and depression before Covid infection were 45% more likely to develop long Covid after infection, and the Nature study found that having anxiety and depression before getting Covid almost doubled the chances of reporting long Covid.

This would help explain why women and trans people are disproportionately reporting long Covid: these two demographics have particularly high rates of anxiety and depression.

But why exactly would mood disorders increase the likelihood of long Covid? Some experts have speculated that stress may affect the immune system’s response to Covid and lead to more serious infections. However, a Turkish study found no evidence that anxiety or depression alters the body’s immune response to the virus. A much likelier explanation could be that, since symptoms of mood disorders overlap with those of long Covid, people are mistaking psychological distress for the side-effects of viral infection.

This is part of a broader phenomenon. Young people are reporting despair and distress at an unprecedented rate, and this mental health crisis is a symptom of a malfunctioning society — a society that is making people sick, by teaching them to feel sick. The tendency for people to misdiagnose their despair as a medical disorder can be observed far beyond reports of long Covid. Consider the surge in cases of gender dysphoria. Between 2012 and 2022, the number of adolescents referred to the NHS’s Gender Identity Development Service (GIDS) increased by over 2000%. If the increase were simply due to decreasing stigma around being trans, it wouldn’t be mostly restricted to a single sex and age range, but it has been driven almost exclusively by young people and natal females.

The group that’s disproportionately reporting gender dysphoria — adolescent girls — appears to be the same demographic as the group deemed in the German study to be disproportionately at risk of long Covid. This is also the group, besides trans people, deemed most at risk of mood disorders. So, again, it seems many young people, particularly girls, are confusing general distress for another illness.

And it’s not just reports of gender dysphoria that have multiplied among young people. Increases have occurred for major depressive disorder, attention-deficit disorder, obsessive-compulsive disorder, social anxiety disorder, generalised anxiety disorder, autism spectrum disorder, and various eating disorders. It seems that young people, and their doctors, are viewing personal issues as medical disorders: we are living through a pathologisation pandemic.

Why are so many people confusing sadness for sickness? It’s human nature to look for single causes to complex problems. The physician’s habit of ascribing all a patient’s symptoms to just one diagnosis led to the formulation of Hickam’s dictum, which states: “A man can have as many diseases as he damn well pleases.” Likewise, it’s tempting to look for a neat and simple reason for people blaming their troubles on a single disorder, but to do this would be to make the same mistake as them. Pathologisation can have as many causes as it damn well pleases.

One may be cyberchondria, the phenomenon whereby people anxiously google symptoms, and, due to confirmation bias, ignore those that don’t apply to them while focusing on those that do, until they become convinced they have the disorder they’re reading about. Another cause may be social contagion, whereby panic spreads through the power of suggestion. According to a UK study, adolescents who reported parents suffering from long Covid were almost twice as likely to report experiencing long Covid symptoms themselves, regardless of whether they’d actually had Covid.

It’s known that social contagions tend to affect girls more than boys, a disparity that could be exacerbated by girls tending to use social media more than boys. But the problem with social contagion as an explanation is that it’s a how, not a why; it offers a means without a motive.

Some have attempted to discern a motive. One is that girls are trying to escape unattainable ideals of femininity. As the arms race of plastic surgery and beauty filters ramps up, natural bodies seem ugly by comparison. This “selfie dysmorphia” may lead to anxiety and depression, as well as symptoms of gender dysphoria, as pubescent girls become desperate to defy the metamorphosis of their bodies into sexual objects. But this explanation doesn’t shed much light on the rise of conditions like long Covid, autism, and obsessive-compulsive disorder. However, a deeper dive into the data does.

When we include politics in the mental health data, it becomes clear that this isn’t simply about gender. A 2020 Pew survey of over 10,000 people found that self-described liberals aged 18-29 were more likely than self-described conservatives of the same age to report suffering psychological problems over the last week. They were also more than twice as likely to say they’d ever been diagnosed with a mental health disorder. Furthermore, those who were “very liberal” were more likely than those who were just “liberal” to report poor mental health. The group most likely to report poor mental health was white liberal females, an alarming 56% of whom reported having received a mental illness diagnosis.

Crucially, controlling for worldview narrowed the gender gap considerably: liberal men were more likely to report poor mental health than conservative women. It would seem, then, that the mental health epidemic among girls and young women is associated with their tendency to have a more Left-liberal mindset than boys and young men — a difference that’s becoming more pronounced over time.

But why would Leftism be associated with poorer mental health? An analysis of data from 86,138 adolescents found, in line with the Pew survey, that between 2005 and 2018 the self-reported mental health of liberals had deteriorated more than conservatives’, and that this deterioration was worst for girls. The researchers blamed this on “alienation within a growing conservative political climate”. However, the New York Times’ Michelle Goldberg debunked this explanation by pointing out that liberals’ mental health woes began while Obama was in power and as the Supreme Court voted to extend gay marriage rights — hardly a conservative political climate.

The real reasons may be deeper. One idea, more than any other, underpins the difference in outlook between liberals and conservatives. Central to Leftism is equality, backed by the idea that people’s fortunes and misfortunes are not their own doing, and therefore undeserved. As such, Leftism de-emphasises the role of human agency in social outcomes, while overemphasising the role of environmental circumstances. As the West has shifted culturally Leftward — due to most writers and artists leaning Left — the depiction of people as hapless puppets has become dominant.

Today’s Left-liberal culture teaches young people that their problems are not their own fault, but rather the product of various systems beyond their control. These systems may be sociological — late capitalism, systemic racism, the patriarchy — but increasingly, they are medical. A common example is “trauma”, a psychiatric term that has become a knee-jerk justification for everything from street crime to silencing opposing views on campus. It’s a word so overused that even clinicians fear it has lost its meaning. Most people, however, are happy to have their personal failings blamed on medical issues, because it absolves them of responsibility. It’s not your fault you violently lashed out, you have trauma. It’s not your fault you lack energy, you have long Covid. It’s not your fault you hate the way you look, you have gender dysphoria.

Pathologisation is also an effective way to manufacture sympathy. The co-founder of Black Lives Matter, Patrisse Cullors, responded to accusations she’d used donation money to enrich friends and family by claiming that the accusations had given her post-traumatic stress disorder, a diagnosis once reserved for rape survivors and war veterans.

Claims like Cullors’s are instinctively met with sympathy and even awe on the Left, where overeager attempts to destigmatise mental illness can end up glamorising it. On social media, young liberals now engage in “sadfishing”, a kind of digital Munchausen’s Syndrome, where people fabricate ailments for pity and clout; some, such as the TikToker “TicsAndRoses”, fake Tourette’s, while others fake multiple personalities. The power of mental health disorders to attract attention online has turned them into fashion accessories, cute quirks to help kids stand out from the crowd, or “part of my dating appeal”.

Unfortunately, these designer disorders are not just harmless labels; intentional pathologisation by influencers is causing unintentional pathologisation among viewers. Reports tell of adolescent girls suddenly developing “TikTok tics” after viewing videos of alleged Tourette’s sufferers. Others tell of adolescents presenting with multiple personalities after watching videos of people claiming to have dissociative identity disorder. As atomisation makes people more desperate for sympathy, and competition makes them more desperate for attention, it’s likely that sadfishing and its consequences will only worsen.

But as disturbing as all this is, victimhood culture is not the only force behind the pathologisation pandemic. It’s been abetted by a medical industry that has its own incentives for exaggerating the prevalence of mental disorders.

Medicalisation — the tendency for clinicians to recategorise ever more things as medical issues — occurs because clinicians are just as human as their patients, and are therefore just as influenced by culture and their own personal biases. The 1973 Rosenhan experiment showed that psychiatrists who have been told that a healthy person is insane will begin to reinterpret that person’s ordinary behaviours, such as note-taking, as manifestations of their mental disorder. We saw this in the Tavistock scandal, where the staff of the infamous Gids clinic, conditioned by ideologues to look for gender dysphoria, became increasingly hasty to diagnose it.

The ability of clinicians to see precisely the symptoms they’re looking for is facilitated by concept creep, the tendency for the definitions of disorders to gradually expand to encompass more people. The rise in autism diagnoses, for instance, can be largely attributed to a diagnostic widening of the autism spectrum. Concept creep occurs largely due to the Shirky principle, which states: “Institutions will try to preserve the problems to which they are the solution.” The motive is often financial; the number of pregnancies deemed to require caesarean sections has increased because this method of delivering babies is more profitable. Likewise, if you’re simply sad then medical companies can’t monetise you, but if your distress is reclassified as, say, gender dysphoria, those companies can sell you puberty blockers or surgical procedures. By 2021, GIDS accounted for a quarter of the Tavistock trust’s income. In the States, the sex reassignment surgery market was valued at $1.9 billion and is projected to have a lucrative annual growth rate of 11.23%.

So, we have a medical industry that is both financially and ideologically motivated to overstate the prevalence of illness, and we have a victimhood culture that encourages people to view themselves as oppressed by things they can’t control. In the middle of this we have ordinary people tempted to blame their problems on medical issues for the sake of easy answers.

These three entities together form a mutually reinforcing system. The late philosopher Ian Hacking, in his book Rewriting the Soul, details how in the 20th century, the press, the public, and the medical industry operated in tandem to create new forms of madness out of mere gossip. Prior to 1970, there were almost no cases of multiple personality disorder (now known as dissociative identity disorder), but after one case was well-publicised by the media, people began using the concept of multiple personalities to make sense of their own problems. In so doing, they began to conform, wittingly or otherwise, to the official symptoms of the disorder. When clinicians speculated that people may invent multiple personalities to deal with childhood sexual abuse, people began to do just that. Some even suddenly “remembered” being sexually abused, even though the concept of repressed memories has no basis in fact. Initially, patients reported having two or three personalities. Within a decade, the average number was 17.

Thus, patient reports influenced clinicians’ diagnoses, but clinicians’ diagnoses also influenced patient reports. Diagnostic criteria became prescriptive as well as descriptive; they told patients how they were supposed to feel and act. Hacking called this cycle of mutual reinforcement a “looping effect”, and it proved so powerful that it turned a couple of isolated cases into an epidemic. A similar looping effect, facilitated by a hyperconnected world, seems to be driving the rise in reports of mental illness today.

This is a problem because imagined sickness can cause real sickness. This occurs in two ways. The first is direct: in rural India, folklore tells that being bitten by a pregnant dog can make one pregnant with the dog’s puppies, and this urban myth has created a new illness: puppy pregnancy syndrome. Victims become so convinced they’re pregnant with puppies that they suffer panic attacks and even manifest symptoms of pregnancy, from persistent nausea to the sensation of puppies crawling in their bellies.

But the second way fake sickness becomes real is far more common and insidious.

Remember how Leftism de-emphasises human agency in the name of equality? Research shows conservatives tend to have an internal locus of control, which means they believe that their decisions, as opposed to external forces, control their destiny. Liberals, meanwhile, tend to have an external locus, which means they believe their lives are determined by forces beyond their control.

The American psychologists Jonathan Haidt and Jean Twenge used national survey data of adolescents to map their locus of control. Their findings were based on the proportion of respondents who agreed with statements such as: “People like me don’t have a chance at a successful life” and “Whenever I try to get ahead, something stops me”. They concluded that, since the Nineties, the locus of control for all teenagers has become more external, but the shift has been greater for liberals, and greatest for liberal girls. Further, when the self-worth of teenagers was mapped, using responses to statements such as “I feel my life is not very useful”, the data showed a universal decline in self-worth since 2012. Again, the decline was stronger for liberals, and strongest for liberal girls.

People with an internal locus of control, believing they control their destiny, tend to be happier and have healthier habits, like good diets and frequent exercise, while people with an external locus of control, believing they’re at the mercy of fate, have higher rates of anxiety and depression and are more likely to abuse drugs and neglect their health. When you believe you have no control, you don’t.

And thus, as society has liberalised, and medicalised, young people have lost both self-belief and resilience. Many have subsequently become trapped in a cycle where they feel distress, and pathologise it, causing more distress, leading to more pathologisation and more distress, which eventually becomes textbook anxiety and depression. The rise in diagnoses is therefore not simply an illusion caused by medicalisation; society is teaching kids to develop real dysfunctions.

This is the greatest danger of the pathologisation pandemic: belief in one’s sickness is self-fulfilling. It’s a disease not of any bodily organ but of hope itself, and it harms its victim by crippling their immunity to everything else.

If there’s a vaccine for the pathologisation pandemic, then the best candidate is Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT). This is a form of talk-based treatment based on the Ancient Greek philosophy of Stoicism. Contrary to modernity, it teaches that our feelings are not always valid, but often deluded and self-destructive. The aim is to reframe harmful thoughts into alternatives that are more accurate, agentic, and soluble. So, instead of “The world sucks”, one could think “I feel like the world sucks right now”. Where pathologisation places problems outside your control, CBT places them within your control. Where pathologisation bundles many small issues into one giant insurmountable problem, CBT breaks down giant problems into small manageable pieces.

No form of psychotherapy has been as rigorously tested as CBT, and its effectiveness in restoring agency and reigniting hope is documented by decades of research. Some studies suggest CBT is gradually losing effectiveness, but this is mostly because CBT, like everything else in the social sciences, has been corrupted by amateurisation and the desire to be “inclusive” and inoffensive. The newest forms of CBT, such as “Transgender-Affirmative CBT”, are the opposite of classic CBT because they seek not to cultivate strength but to validate feelings.

More than ever, a return is needed to the original, Stoicism-based form of CBT, which has helped everyone from the philosopher-emperor Marcus Aurelius, who governed Rome during a time of war and plague, to Vietnam POW James Stockdale, who used it to withstand torture at the notorious “Hanoi Hilton”. The ultimate cure to rampant pathologisation is to prepare the young to do battle against their greatest foe — their own minds — and to teach them a time-tested truth, bequeathed to us by history’s survivors: you are more than the things that happen to you. And you have as much control over your life as you believe you do.

Many of the misfortunes that befall you will not be your fault, but if you seek explanations for your suffering in things beyond your control, you risk falling prey to a culture and industry that are motivated to keep you feeling ill. Look within for the causes and, most times, you’ll find the cures. Modern society will tell you otherwise, of course, but it’s within your power to defy it, for you are not a helpless leaf in the wind but a mind that holds a world, which, depending on how you think, could be a Hell in Heaven, or a Heaven in Hell.


So we have yet another study ("Symptoms and risk factors for long COVID in non-hospitalized adults") showing that for about half of people with long COVID, there is no evidence they got covid - yet more evidence that long covid is mostly in the mind (in the head). Ditto for other issues.

The "mental health" people are going to be very upset.

Links - 7th July 2023 (1)

Man who adopted 'child' that turned out to be 22-year-old woman explodes with furious outburst - "The whole strange story is set to be told next month when the documentary The Curious Case of Natalia Grace starts on ID.  Basically, a couple in Indiana thought that they were adopting a six-year-old girl from Ukraine, but started to get other ideas about what was going on, as well as accusing their adoptive daughter Natalia Grace of attempting to harm them and their biological children physically.  Michael and Kristine Barnett eventually made some accusations against Natalia Grace, at which point the revelation emerged that she wasn’t a six-year-old girl at all, but a 22-year-old woman... Natalia Grace actually had a form of dwarfism called spondyloepiphysieal dysplasia... According to PEOPLE, Michael and his wife weren’t aware that Natalia was 22-years-old until 2012, two years after they adopted her.  The couple went to a probate court in Marion County to get her birthdate changed from 2003 to 1989, recognising her real age..., the couple said that they were forewarned by a doctor, who told them that their adoptive daughter was ‘a con artist’ and that they and their family were ‘in danger’."

Legalising All Drugs Would Have Major Health Benefits Say Researchers - "By legalising all illicit substances, governments would be able to better regulate drugs, remove barriers to addiction treatment and curb the activities of black market dealers and traffickers, resulting in a whole host of public health benefits.  The paper states that since the global ‘war on drugs’ began in earnest in the early 1960s, use of illegal substances has actually increased, while also becoming more dangerous. For example, the increased prevalence of fentanyl-laced heroin has resulted in an epidemic of overdoses in the United States, which the researchers argue could be controlled through regulation if heroin were legal. In another often deadly unintended consequence of current laws, people suffering from drug addiction are sometimes reluctant to seek treatment due to the possibility of arrest or imprisonment – something the researchers point out that legalisation would also address."

Indonesia woman irked by mosque noise convicted of blasphemy - "An Indonesian court has sentenced a woman who complained about a noisy mosque to 18 months in prison for blasphemy.  The ethnic Chinese woman, Meiliana, burst into tears as presiding Judge Wahyu Prasetyo Wibowo announced the sentence Tuesday. She was taken from the court in handcuffs.  Prosecutors said the 44-year-old defendant violated the criminal code by committing blasphemy against Islam, the dominant faith in Indonesia, the world’s most populous Muslim nation.  Mobs burned and ransacked at least 14 Buddhist temples throughout Tanjung Balai, a port town on Sumatra, in a July 2016 riot following reports of Meiliana’s complaint about a mosque’s noisy loudspeakers.  The woman’s lawyer, Ranto Sibarani, said the sentence would be appealed. A conservative group, Islamic Community Forum, said Meilana’s sentence was too light.  The maximum sentence for blasphemy is five years.  Indonesia’s Constitution guarantees freedom of speech and religion, but in recent years blasphemy cases have been filed against people perceived as offending Islam in a possible sign of a more conservative brand of the religion gaining ground in Indonesia. The overwhelming majority of cases end with guilty verdicts."
Another example of Moderate Islam, from 2018

Meme - "I just realized why this month is called May It may rain, it may snow, it may be 70 degrees or 20 below"

Loneliness around the world: Age, gender, and cultural differences in loneliness - "The BBC Loneliness Experiment provided a unique opportunity to examine differences in the experience of lonelines across cultures, age, and gender, and the interaction between these factors. Using those data, we analysed the frequency of loneliness reported by 46,054 participants aged 16–99 years, living across 237 countries, islands, and territories, representing the full range of individualism-collectivism cultures, as defined by Hofstede (1997). Findings showed that loneliness increased with individualism, decreased with age, and was greater in men than in women. We also found that age, gender, and culture interacted to predict loneliness, although those interactions did not qualify the main effects, and simply accentuated them. We found the most vulnerable to loneliness were younger men living in individualistic cultures."

What Food Makes Us Happiest? - "“You are what you eat.” This age-old proverbial saying contains the notion that what we eat plays a role in our health, including our happiness. Using data from the World Happiness Report and consumable data from Our World in Data, I studied whether this adage had any data science-backed truth to it. I looked individually at how numerous consumables seemed to be correlated with happiness in countries from around the world. I discovered that Meat had the highest Pearson Correlation (almost 0.75) and I was able to model this using a linear regression. When considering fruits, I found that countries which consumed more Oranges and Mandarins seemed to be happier than countries that ate other fruits. Likewise, in terms of alcohol, countries that consumed more wine and especially beer tended to be happier than countries that drank more spirits."

ICA officer who received sex and over $3k in bribes convicted of 8 graft charges, acquitted of 4 - "An Immigration and Checkpoints Authority (ICA) officer has been convicted of corruption for receiving sex and cash from a foreign sex worker who wanted to be arrested so that she could buy time and continue working in Singapore.  The sex worker, Liang Qinglan, knew that foreigners issued with a special pass (SP) could remain here to assist with investigations.  The Chinese national concluded that as long as she was not deported, she could still work...   He said he would arrange for her to be arrested.  Teo, who previously worked in ICA’s Intel Ops Branch, had contacts who alerted him to potential immigration offenders. He gave an informant Liang’s details, and the informant in turn alerted an ICA officer.  Liang was arrested on Oct 16, 2018. When asked whether she wanted to remain in Singapore to assist with a related ICA investigation, she agreed... Teo, who has been suspended from his duties by ICA since Nov 25, 2020, was convicted on Tuesday of eight graft charges for receiving cash and sex from Liang on multiple occasions in 2018 and 2019.  He was acquitted of one graft charge linked to Liang and three similar charges involving another Chinese national, Ms Cheng Wenjuan.  He received the acquittals after Liang gave unclear and puzzling evidence involving a purported sexual favour, and following Ms Cheng’s death from suicide"
This is novel

Meme - "Her: Wanna try anal?
Me: Sure
Sector is clear
Her: *Whips out strap-on*
NOT CLEAR! NOT CLEAR!"

Meme - "The genie misunderstood his wish *Boy with 6 cats/pussies on lap*"

'Pantry porn' on TikTok and Instagram makes obsessively organized kitchens a new status symbol - "Today, over 85% of new homes built in America that are over 3,500 square feet feature a walk-in pantry, reportedly the most desirable kitchen feature for new homebuyers, according to a 2019 report... Like its food porn predecessor, pantry porn thrives on stylizing everyday life in exaggerated ways. But where food porn elicits a desire for gluttonous indulgence, pantry porn taps into a different cultural desire: the orderly arrangement of abundance... What lies beneath the surface of this anti-messiness, pro-niceness stance is a history of classist, racist and sexist social structures. In my research, influencers who produce pantry porn are predominantly white women who demonstrate what it looks like to maintain a “nice” home by creating a new status symbol: the perfectly organized, fully stocked pantry."
Anything white people do is racist. Anything women do is because of sexism. Anything rich people do is classist

Maroon 5 Singer Allegedly Cheated On Wife With Instagram Model, Asked To Name His Baby After Her - "Hyper-Woke Maroon 5 frontman Adam Levine cheated on his Victoria’s Secret model wife Behati Prinsloo with Instagram model Sumner Stroh and tried to name his child with Prinsloo after the mistress"

Meme - "Okay, also, when did sex workers start calling regular people civilians? You're not cops. You're not in the fucking military. Get your head out of your ass"
5 Energy Beings in an antifascist t-s... @challah_chic: "Sex workers do more for this country than any cop and are braver than any US Marine. unironically, sex workers deserve more money and respect than violent state actors"

YouTuber Trevor Daniel Jacob agrees to plead guilty to federal charge after intentionally crashing his plane for online views, DOJ says - "Trevor Daniel Jacob admitted to authorities he planned to crash his plane in a video he made to promote a wallet. He later collected the aircraft’s wreckage and got rid of it to hinder federal investigators from probing the crash site"

A Niagara Falls Parking Hack Has Gone Viral & It Can Easily Save You Money (VIDEO) - "instead of paying $35 for a day of parking, visitors can purchase an annual pass from the Niagara Parks website for just $40."

McDonald's found liable for hot Chicken McNugget that fell from Happy Meal and burned girl - "McDonald’s and a franchise holder are at fault after a hot Chicken McNugget from a Happy Meal fell on a little girl's leg and caused second-degree burns, a jury in South Florida has found.  A second jury will determine how much McDonald's USA and its franchise owner, Upchurch Foods, will pay the child and her mother... Thursday's decision was split, with jurors finding the franchise holder liable for negligence and failure to warn customers about the risk of hot food, and McDonald’s USA liable for failing to provide instructions for safe handling of the food. McDonald's USA was not found to be negligent, and the jury dismissed the argument that the product was defective... The jury heard two days of testimony and arguments about the 2019 episode that left the 4-year-old girl with a burned upper thigh before finding McDonald's to blame. Philana Holmes testified that she bought Happy Meals for her son and daughter at a drive-thru window at a McDonald's in Tamarac, near Fort Lauderdale, the SunSentinel reported. She said she handed the food to her children, who were in the back seat.  After she drove away, her daughter started screaming. The mother testified she didn't know what was wrong until she pulled over to help the girl, identified in court as Olivia, the newspaper reported. She saw the burn on the girl's leg and took photos on her iPhone, which included audio clips of the child's screams. The sound of the girl's screams were played in court.  The child, who is autistic, did not testify, the newspaper reported.  Lawyers for McDonald’s noted that the food had to be hot to avoid salmonella poisoning, and that the nuggets were not meant to be pressed between a seat belt and human flesh for more than two minutes.  The girl's parents sued, saying that McDonald's and the franchise owner failed to adequately train employees, failed to warn customers about the “dangerous” temperature of the food, and for cooking the food to a much higher temperature than necessary."
Sweet moolah! This is why you have warnings telling you not to drink battery acid
The mother should be charged instead for child abuse, for letting the nuggets burn her kid for more than two minutes

Meme - "Wizard who got tired of fighting and casts fucked up unethical spells like "super brain hemorthage" to end them faster"
"One time did "Summon Water" inside guys lungs and the GM allowed it because he had been playing for years and never seen anyone do that"
"Me "I can raise the temperature of a space by 5 degrees (Fahrenheit) per success"
DM "Okay."
Me "And that's 6 successes, 30 degrees.
DM "Okay.
Me "And 'inside the human body" is space, right?"
DM "... I don't ike where this is going."
Me "So I'm going to raise the temperature inside his body 30 degrees"
DM "Yeah, so he's dead now. He was fine, and then went through all the stages of heat stroke in half a second before his body went 'No thank you" and just shut off to stop it from being hot. Good job""
"I CAST FUCK YOU"

Meme - "I Love THAT WE CAN JUST SiT TOGETHER in SiLENCE"
"W... WHAT DID You put in My drink?"

Meme - "Lawrence 27
!MUST READ! Any female wanting to swipe right must meet the following criteria. You must be between 5'1 and 5'5 NO EXCEPTIONS. You must weigh no more than 110 pounds NO EXCEPTIONS. You must fit enough to hold me but no visible muscle tone. The anime girl in the second picture is a reference so if you don't look like her swipe left. NO RELIGIOUS PEOPLE! I want to raise intelligent children and can't sacrifice my seed to someone delusional enough to believe in so called "God". I am extremely smart
*Busty animal girl*"
This is even better than most single mother bios

Que Sera, Sera (Whatever Will Be, Will Be) - Wikipedia - "Contrary to popular perception, the phrase is not Spanish in origin (in Spanish it would be "lo que será, será"), and is ungrammatical in that language. It was evidently formed by a word-for-word mistranslation of English "What will be will be"."

Meme - "Dude just got served."
"Hey Mike, I've been so horny since I've met you! I've never felt like this after meeting a guy!"
"Sorry? Who is this?"
"I'm glad your phone is working, it's your window cleaner and you're due the past three cleans. Please settle your account before we pass it to the small claims court"

Meme - "Street Fighter 2 actually only contains 1 street Temple (Not a street)
Jetty (Not a street)
Rooftop (Not a street)
Factory (Not a street)
Quay (Not a street)
Temple (Not a street)
Airfield (Not a street)
Bar (Not a street)
Bath House (Not a street)
Monument (Not a street)
Casino Entrance (It's a street, just about)
It's a street!"

Does anyone actually enjoy living in Toronto? Or am I the only one? : askTO - "Happy people don't come to reddit honestly. The more I come here the more I think people just whine about how life is unfair and how they have 27 different self-diagnosed mental illnesses (badge of honor btw) and how they were raised by parents with maxed out dark triad personalities"

Sarah Jessica Parker Looks Like A Horse | A Loving Tribute to New York's Self-Proclaimed Aging Fashion Icon! - "You be the judge…"

Why you need to consider a variable-rate mortgage now more than ever
From 2021. This ddidn't age well

Meme - "This is Dr Annie Vallirres. She is the director of sleep laboratories at Laval University
Dre ANNIE VALLIERES, directrice laboratoire sur le sommeil a I'Universite Laval
*haggard*“

Engineering Victory with Elon Musk | Dan Carlin's Hardcore History: Addendum • Podcast Notes - "‘When I think of, you know, one of the things that used to teach us in the military history classes was that if you're facing another opponent, the the side that has the technological advantage is at its greatest disparity at the very beginning of the conflict. And that it, the longer the conflict goes on, the more time the adversary has to adjust and come up with countermeasures. So that's how tribal peoples in Afghanistan maybe adjust to being the technologically inferior side. Um, could one make a case today that there are examples of that? You know, the US still I would, I would assume, correct me if I'm wrong, the technological leader there in military technology, but if you're the Russians or the Chinese and we end up in a war in 20 years, are there ways that they can compensate for the fact that they're behind on, cert-, is an electromagnetic pulse attack something that helps compensate for a satellite discrepancy?’"

EP18 Iranian Interconnections – Dan Carlin's Hardcore History: Addendum – Podcast – Podtail - "‘The British were absolutely bankrupted by the Second World War. And as you said, yes, looking for soft landing is a good way to put it. I mean, they were they were trying to adjust this new postimperial of reality, which took some time. And they desperately needed money. And the Anglo Iranian oil company had been and continued to be the source of great profits for the United Kingdom. Of course, after the war, Britain creates this massive welfare state under the Labour Government of Clement Atlee, but needs to fund it. And well, for me, this is I mean, one of the things that's often not appreciated, in Britain actually, is just how much of the British welfare state that people kind of cherish and take for granted, things like the National Health Service and so on, was really funded, not entirely, but in very, very large measure by the profits from Iranian oil.’"

EP24 Manifesting the Muse with Rick - Dan Carlin's Hardcore History: Addendum | Podcast on Spotify - "‘People were not afraid of sharks before the movie Jaws. Now there's a percentage of the population that are afraid to go swimming in the ocean because they're afraid of sharks, whether it's a shark infested area or not. All because of a movie. It changed our world to be afraid of sharks’...
‘The shark didn't work right. The the the the mechanical shark rarely worked and so Spielberg who had all of these ideas for scenes where the shark was going to appear had to figure out ways to write the scenes without the shark because the shark so rarely was available, and it turned out that by doing that it created a building suspense in the film that wasn't there in the original treatment for the movie because they assumed you'd have a shark to work with and it worked out better because of it’"

Meme - Mugshawtys @mugshawt...: "public intoxication, providing false information to a police officer, and possession of a fake ID *cute blonde with nice hair*"
*sweating and presenting proposal ring*

Man who married women 54 years his senior: No time for 'toxic' people | Toronto Sun - "Gary Hardwick, now 23, but just 17 when he wed Almeda, who was 71 and is now 75, says he’s cutting out “toxic” people who don’t support his marriage."
Anyone who doesn't support what you do unconditionally is "toxic". There's a good bet that he's the toxic one, since those who keep throwing that word around are the really toxic ones

Should You Cut 'Toxic' People Out of Your Life? - The Atlantic - "he and my boyfriend started bickering about which Lorde album is better, the first one or the second one. This kind of argument can be entertaining if the participants are making funny or interesting points, but they weren’t, and they wouldn’t drop it. The roommate was getting louder and louder; my boyfriend was repeating himself. It was Friday; I was tired. I snapped and said, loudly, “This conversation is dumb, and I don’t want to keep having it.”... “Your girlfriend is toxic,” he warned, followed by an emoji of a monkey covering its face.  This accusation was upsetting because I crave approval at all times from everyone around me. But it was also surprising because toxic is an internet word. I had seen all kinds of advice on Twitter, Instagram, TikTok, and Reddit about how to deal with “toxic” friends, generally by never speaking to them again. But I had rarely heard it used offline, and then only semi-ironically, or in regard to people who were objectively terrible. I had never had to consider whether it was a word that could be applied to me. he internet is wallpapered with advice, much of it delivered in a cut-and-dried, cut-’em-loose tone. Frankly worded listicles abound. For instance: “7 Tips for Eliminating Toxic People From Your Life,” or “7 Ways to Cut a Toxic Friend Out of Your Life.” On Instagram and Pinterest, the mantras are ruthless: “There is no better self-care than cutting off people who are toxic for you”; “If I cut you off, chances are, you handed me the scissors.” The signature smugness and sass of Twitter are particularly well suited to dispensing these tidbits of advice. I don’t know who needs to hear this, a tweet will begin, suggesting that almost anyone might need to hear it, but if someone hurts your feelings, you are allowed to get rid of them. There is even a WebMD page about how to identify a “toxic person,” defined aggressively unhelpfully as “anyone whose behavior adds negativity and upset to your life.” Well, by that measure … !... A person has no obligation to forgive anyone for anything, he may have been reassured by some tinny internet voice. Or as one “Inspirational Quotes” account tweeted over the summer: “Cut them off silently, they know exactly what they did.”... the advice I’m sifting through isn’t just about sloughing off casual acquaintances; it’s meant to apply to close friends, siblings, partners, parents. The message—implied if not always stated outright—is that other people are simply not my problem... Joshua Coleman, a psychologist focused on family estrangement, described advising an influx of parents whose adult children had cut them out of their lives. Karl Pillemer, a professor at Cornell University, published a book on the topic in 2020 in which he estimated that about 67 million Americans were estranged from a family member. Some blame self-absorbed young people. In a New York Times column last year, David Brooks employed the work of Pillemer and other experts to argue that the estrangement epidemic might be driven by “a generational shift in what constitutes abuse”—difficult or distant parents, redefined as dangerous. He wondered whether today’s young people view the family as a “launchpad for personal fulfillment,” rather than the site of lifelong obligation. Brooks then painted a lonely picture of the “psychological unraveling of America,” working in high rates of depression and suicide, as well as the sizable percentages of Americans who feel that they do not have even one close friend and that nobody truly knows them.  Two decades ago, Robert D. Putnam lamented the breakdown of social ties in Bowling Alone... Why is this happening? Maybe young people have been inspired by the impermanence and infinite choice baked into online dating and social media. Maybe our brains have been pickled in wellness culture and “self-care” rhetoric, which stress the need to privilege our own well-being above all else. Or maybe we’re just good American capitalists, encouraged by the cult of individualism to think of ourselves as compelling brands, the main characters of cinematic star vehicles, the centers of the universe... Jack Worthy, a psychotherapist in New York, doesn’t care for the word toxic: “As far as I know, it’s not an actual psychological construct that has validity and reliability.” But lately, he told me, it’s been coming up “again and again” in his practice. Many patients “want to explore ideas or frameworks that they learned online.”... Earlier iterations of self-help often stressed the hard work of building and maintaining relationships, of opening up and connecting with others. That’s more arduous than simply removing from your social network anyone who causes you discomfort... The relationship advice I’ve been describing doesn’t necessarily encourage anyone to think of themselves as a victim of abuse, but it does imply that one person is always in the right, while the other is in the wrong—so much so that the person in the right should summarily dismiss the person in the wrong... As he spoke, she was thinking, “Wait a minute. Why is this being called abuse? It sounds like a 16- or 17-year-old kid with no experience with relationships who doesn’t know anything about intimacy … I saw his confusion and his pain and his humanity. And I had no desire to label him as being bad.” In 2016, the writer Sarah Schulman published a book called Conflict Is Not Abuse, elaborating on Hodes’s work. She argues that overstatement of harm can itself cause more harm. The person seen as good will be supported and the person seen as bad will be shunned. On social media, Hodes said, these binaries become even more entrenched, because people are encouraged to take sides... One of the easiest explanations for the “toxic” trend is clearly false: Young people aren’t misanthropes. In the past few years, Millennials and Gen Zers have helped rejuvenate the concept of mutual aid, participated in some of the country’s largest-ever demonstrations in favor of racial justice, and expressed a renewed interest in organizing labor"
The narcissists who call everyone else toxic are the toxic ones. Clearly if a child is estranged from a parent, it's always the parent's fault
You can love humanity as a concept while hating humans. And many people - especially young people - do hate humanity, as evidenced by misanthropic environmentalism)

The Atlantic - Posts | Facebook - "A reader writes in: "My 32-year-old daughter has developed the idea that I am responsible for all her failures—not having the job she wanted, not being a sociable person, not being capable to love and to be loved.""
Comments: "I supervised a lot of people over my career, and some of them had serious performance problems. And the single factor that every problem employee had in common was that they refused to take any responsibility for their situation. Every bad thing that had ever happened to them was always someone else’s fault."
"Not to sound harsh, but the 32 year old will have to move forward and stop blaming others for her so called failures. I had a tough childhood with a mentally ill single parent. At some point, I realized that it was time for me to pull my shit together and stop lingering in the shadow of whatever had occurred before. I could wallow in self pity or move on. I chose the latter. It wasn’t easy but my mother and I have an understanding now. I have tremendous empathy for what SHE went through with HER crazy parents and gratitude for all she managed to do RIGHT in SPITE of her illness. Now that I’m a parent, I feel empowered to make choices that my mother did not have."
Of course lots of commenters are just bashing the parents

Thursday, July 06, 2023

Links - 6th July 2023 (2 - General Wokeness)

Why Canada's plan to criminalize Holocaust denial could be unconstitutional — and redundant - ""I think it's problematic to criminalize Holocaust denial," said Cara Zwibel, lawyer and director of the Fundamental Freedoms Program at the Canadian Civil Liberties Association. "That's not to say that that kind of expression is not harmful. But the truth is, we don't criminalize lying for the most part." "I think if it adds things that sort of go beyond the narrow definition of what the court has said is hate speech, then it's probably unconstitutional."... Zwibel warned the legislation could give Holocaust deniers a platform. She cited the case of Holocaust denier Ernst Zundel, who was tried twice in the 1980s for publishing the pamphlet Did Six Million Really Die? The Truth At Last. Although convicted, Zundel was eventually acquitted when the Supreme Court of Canada struck down the country's laws against spreading false news as a violation of free speech. His trials also put the Holocaust on trial, with the crown bringing in Holocaust researchers and survivors to support their case, while the defence put noted Holocaust deniers on the stand. "What being prosecuted did for [Zundel] was give him a big platform and basically allow him to parade a bunch of witnesses in court to try and prove that the Holocaust didn't happen and have the government put survivors before the court. It's atrocious," Zwibel said. Zwibel also suggested there could be problems with how the amendment would define terms such as "condoning' and "downplaying" in relation to the Holocaust... Moon questioned whether the proposed amendment would add anything to what is already covered in the Criminal Code, other than to potentially specify or clarify in some way. "So one possibility, it's not actually doing anything new," he said. "The way this is framed, it sounds like someone being prosecuted under it, the prosecution would have to establish what they already have to establish under the existing Criminal Code."

Government bill on Holocaust denial ineffective and likely unconstitutional: civil liberties group - "“We’re singling out a particular historical genocide and tragedy and protecting it with the criminal law in a way that we’re not doing for others,” she said, adding groups are inevitably going to ask why a similar law doesn’t apply to the Rwandan genocide or even Canada’s residential schools. She said fighting racism and anti-Semitism is important, but simply criminalizing it doesn’t do that and risks becomes more about political theatre than actual progress. “If you look at other countries that have Holocaust denial laws, including Germany, big shocker, they still have anti-Semites. They still have problems with racism and anti-Semitism, so this is not an effective way to tackle the problem.”"

Meme - "Wow. 16% of white Americans think that it would be okay for states to enact anti miscegenation laws. Crazy. (Now look directly to the right of that number)"
"SCOTUS Survey - April 11, 2023
States should be allowed to prevent two people from different races from marrying
White - 18%, Black - 31%, Hispanic - 24%
Liberal - 22%, Moderate - 18%, Conservative 18%
Democrat - 21%, Republican - 19%, Independent - 16%
Liberals are against miscegenation the most.. wild"
Damn racist white supremacist Republicans!

Meme - @ElijahSchaffer: "Germany's Top Model Winner 2023 (left) vs Random Ethnic German Model (right)"

Planned Parenthood sex-ed flyer telling 11-year-olds they could have sex, as long as the partner isn't older than 13, distributed in WA public school

Billboard Chris 🇨🇦🇺🇸 on Twitter - "Planned Parenthood brought cards like this to a Grade 9 class in Saskatchewan, for kids to study the sexual alphabet.
"Half and Half: When someone sucks your dick, and then your ass"
"Yellow & Brown Showers. Yes, pissing and crapping on your partner"
"Auto-Fellation. The practice of sucking your own dick"
"Felching. The act of sucking semen from your partner's butt"...
The kids in Fort Nelson also received booklets about dildos and oral sex... The email to parents wasn’t even honest.
From 2023. I guess abortions are really 3% of all they do
The cope was very amusing

Nadine Ness on Twitter - "It’s so disturbing that the left in Sask and NDP promoters are denying, minimizing and justifying the actions of Planned Parenthood who exposed 14 year olds to explicit sexual content that repulses even most adult. They deny this email is real. They deny the cards were in the classroom. They are saying this is not true and this was simply appropriate sexual health education. Here is a PDF of the physical cards that were in the classroom and pointed to in an attempt to start discussion. http://librarypdf.catie.ca/ATI-20000s/26124.pdf Several kids grabbed some of the cards and were discussing them among themselves inside and outside of the classroom. (Yea the email is incorrect). It was not one student. Every kids was given this flyer to bring home: https://catie.ca/sites/default/files/2022-01/CATIE_SaferSexGuide_2022_English_WEB.pdf A complaint was filed with the RCMP by at least one parent or more and they are investigating. I have spoken to parents personally. This happened and it should be condemned and investigated on how organizations like this one can come in and have access to our kids and teach anything that falls outside of the approved curriculum. Attached are pictures of the email and some of the cue cards kids took home and discussed in and out of the classroom. Some even encourages kids to watch porn. More will be posted in the comments. As a former police officer who is trained to profile and interview sex offenders including child sex offender I find this extremely disturbing."

B.C. school apologizes after 'vulgar' and 'excessively graphic' sex ed cards handed out to Grade 8 and 9 students - "A Chilliwack, B.C., school has apologized for giving Grade 8 and 9 students “inappropriate” sex education material that described graphic sex acts and used sexual slang words. Principal Chuck Lawson said a deck of sex cards was accidentally given to 15 students at C.H.A.N.C.E. Alternate School last Thursday following a presentation by a guest speaker on healthy relationships... The presentation was given by Sto:lo Health. School officials had previewed the presentation beforehand and given it the all-clear, said Lawson. The cards, however, were not approved. The school said it had talked to a supervisor from Sto:lo Health, which is investigating how the cards got into take-home bags given to students. The cards, which provide definitions of sexual terms from A to Z, angered some parents. A mother whose child attends C.H.A.N.C.E. told Global B.C. she was disgusted with the school’s carelessness in handing out material she considers to be pornography. On social media, people have called the cards “vulgar” and “excessively graphic.” The card creators themselves say the cards were not meant to be distributed to minors in school. “This resource in particular is for gay, bi, queer men,” said Chris Thomas, spokesman for the AIDS Committee of Toronto. “Generally, we use them in bars and bathhouses.” Thomas said if a student expressly asked for the card he would have no objections to providing a deck, but he would not hand the cards out in a general setting. “It’s operative on the idea of consent. We don’t force our resources on Grade 8 or 9 students.” Kristen Gilbert, director of education for Options for Sexual Health, said she does not believe there would be any lasting negative impact on the students exposed to the graphic material. Instead, she said the packing error could be a learning opportunity for parents to have a conversation with their child."
From 2015
As MTV says, sex is not an accident

Andy Ngô 🏳️‍🌈 on Twitter - "In an interview w/left-wing paper Sydney Morning Herald, the Australian "eSafety Commissioner" said she plans to use legal powers to force @elonmusk to censor Twitter with threat of $700k per day fines. The report mentions yours truly as a problem"
Anything that threatens the liberal agenda is hate and dangerous and violent

Rebecca F Kuang rejects idea authors should not write about other races - "The author of Babel and The Poppy War, Rebecca F Kuang, has said she finds the idea that authors should only write about characters of their own race “deeply frustrating and pretty illogical”. Speaking at the Hay festival, the author, who was born in China but moved to the US when she was four, said that there is a “really weird kind of identity politics going on in American publishing”... this has now “spiralled into this really strict and reductive understanding of race”. As a result, a movement that began as a call for more authentic stories about marginalised communities “gets flipped around and weaponised against the marginalised writers to pigeonhole them into telling only certain kinds of stories”... When it comes to another contentious issue in the publishing world – sensitivity readers – Kuang said she has “mixed feelings”. “I’ve always found it really weird to pay somebody to tell you if you’ve accidentally been racist,” she added. “I think you should be able to do the research to know yourself.”"

We seem to have forgotten that actors pretend to be other people for a living - "“How is working-class tourism still OK for posh actors?” asks actress Jessica Barden. “Emma Corrin finished playing Diana [in The Crown] and said they wanted to do a ‘gritty’ independent film in Scotland with an ‘outrageous accent’ and ‘red hair’. I was, like, why are you allowed to talk like this?” The 30-year-old star of Channel 4’s The End of the F---ing World made the broadside in an interview at the weekend, before doubling down on her point that “posh actors” should stick to the gravel drives in their DNA (my words, not hers), and not stray into portraying anyone from less privileged backgrounds, like her own (Barden was born in North Yorkshire and comes from a family of Yorkshire miners). At the time of writing, Corrin has not responded, and probably shouldn’t. Although personally, I’d be tempted to issue the following statement: “Acting: the performing art in which movement, gesture and intonation are used to realise a fictional character for the stage, for motion pictures, or for television.” We could all do with a reminder of what acting is. The starker the better. Because somewhere along the mine-strewn “authenticity in casting”, “cultural appropriation”, “my identity matters above all else” road, we seem to have forgotten that these people pretend to be other people for a living."... Guy Nattiv was forced to defend the casting of Dame Helen Mirren in a forthcoming film about the late Israeli Prime Minister Golda Meir. “For me,” he said, “she had the Jewish chops to play Golda.” Previous “Jewface” spats involved Felicity Jones portraying Ruth Bader Ginsburg in On the Basis of Sex in 2018, and another non-Jewish actress, Rachel Brosnahan, portraying the fictional Miriam Maisel in the Amazon series The Marvellous Mrs. Maisel. Back in 2021, screenwriter Russell T Davies – whose latest hit series It’s a Sin depicted the lives of a group of gay men during the HIV/Aids crisis – declared that only gay performers should play gay characters. “I’m going to war,” he said, adding that the likes of Colin Firth, who had played a gay professor in the 2009 film A Single Man, should be “ashamed of their actions”. But when I interviewed Rupert Everett last month, he disagreed. Straight actors can absolutely play gay characters, the 63-year-old assured me. What offended Everett was not being “allowed” to play a straight man after he came out. You can understand his annoyance (especially when gay Hollywood film stars have been pretending to be straight for decades)."

Man who beat elderly nursing home patient on video deemed incompetent for trial - "The man who recorded himself brutally beating 75-year-old Norman Bledsoe will not go to trial or face prison time – for now. Jadon Hayden was deemed incompetent to go to trial. His father says he was diagnosed with autism as a child, and schizophrenia years later. "Thinking that my son could go to prison for many years, that just put more pressure on me," his father Marty Hayden said. "But once the case was dismissed it really lifted a lot of burden off my shoulders." The case against Jadon Hayden was dismissed in late April after the 22-year-old was deemed incompetent to stand trial. Bledsoe died at another nursing home two months after the attack. His death was not ruled a homicide, but his family told The Detroit News he was not the same after the assault."
Weird. Liberals tell us only white people get off on mental health

Meme - "Are they calling gay a disability now?"
"Asking when straight month is is like asking where the non disabled parking spots are."

Meme - Into the Memory Hole: "'member that time lawnmowers genocided an entire people?"
"Number of domestic extremist-related killings in the U.S. 2009-2020: 17"
"President Biden says White supremacists are the greatest domestic terror threat in the US: "It's complex, it's wide-ranging and it's real." #BidenTownHall"
"Riding lawnmowers kill average of 70 people each year, injure 80,000 more"
Since liberal logic is that you're "more likely to die from being buried alive or from choking on food than at the hands of foreign-born terrorists attacking on American soil", so if you're worried about the later you're racist

Nadine Ness on Twitter - "Discrimination based on sexual orientation is very much alive and well in this Sask school, especially if that sexual orientation is straight. High school students in Swift Current were pulled into the principles office for signing their name on a poster that said “I’m straight and proud”. I’ve attached a copy and covered the student’s names in order to protect their identity. The principle allegedly had an RCMP officer brought in to question some of these kids without parents there and the kids have disclosed to their parents feeling being intimidated by this RCMP officer who was saying things like this borderlines a hate crime and they could get in legal trouble. What makes this worst is the school never even notified the parents of those kids! If you are a parent of one of those kids I’m sorry you’re hearing it from me first and not the school. As a former RCMP officer I find this alleged behaviour of the officer very disturbing and made worst by the fact parents were kept in the dark and kids were not offered parents to be present. I’m also hearing of other concerning stories coming out of that school which I will go public with once they are all confirmed. Some include the sex education program and it alleges an outside presenter is being brought into the school to present and is encouraging students to masturbate. What is happening in our Sask schools?!"
Heterophobia is a myth

Meme - Jonathan Kay @jonkay: "Well, it's finally happening folks. Temple Israel of London is finally "decolonizing the synagogue.""
This won't shut the anti-Semites who claim it's all a Jewish plot to destabilise the West up

Outrage as club hires dwarf for St Patrick's Day 'leprechaun meet and greet' - "A student club is under fire for plans to hire a dwarf to play a leprechaun for St Patrick's Day... Actor and performer Gregory Doherty, who was booked for the event, added: "As you can imagine with a name like Doherty I am of Irish descent. Both my parents are Irish and I carry an Irish passport. I am incredibly proud to be of Irish heritage. "I do not consider dressing up as a mythical creature offensive/or a racial slur against the people of Ireland. Not sure if you’ve ever travelled to Ireland on Saint Patrick’s Day, but the iconography of a leprechaun is as iconic as a shillelagh or a shamrock.""
But if they'd hired a person of normal height, that would've been stealing jobs from short people. You can't win with grievance mongers

LA Dodgers: Pride Night Featuring Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence Protested | National Review - "Thousands of people gathered outside Dodger Stadium to protest the inclusion of the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence in a Pride Event celebration before Friday night’s game. The Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence are a self-described “leading-edge Order of queer and trans nuns” known for satirizing Christian communities. The announcement drew the condemnation of numerous Catholic groups, including the Archdiocese of Los Angeles... during the game against rival San Francisco Giants, the group was introduced to a mostly empty stadium as many onlookers booed and jeered... Star Dodgers pitcher, Clayton Kershaw, was an outspoken critic of the team’s decision to include the group in its annual Pride celebrations. “I don’t agree with making fun of other people’s religions,” the Cy Young winner told the Los Angeles Times in an interview in late May. “It has nothing to do with anything other than that. I just don’t think that, no matter what religion you are, you should make fun of somebody else’s religion. So that’s something that I definitely don’t agree with.”"
Clearly Christian intolerance!

Meme - *LGBT extending head across the country painted in Pride flags into a Pride-less church*: "STOP OPPRESSING ME!!!"

Melbourne schoolboys are slammed as 'oppressors' because they're white, male and Christian - "A youth worker forced Year 11 male students at a co-ed public school to stand up in front of the class as she condemned them as historical 'oppressors' because they are white, male, and Christian. The female Kingston City Council worker gave a talk about privilege, pronouns, and intersectionality at Parkdale Secondary College in Mordialloc, Melbourne... The woman told these students that they were 'privileged' and 'oppressors', sparking outrage among parents and local councillors."

ABBA fans banned from wearing 70s ‘Afro wigs’ at concert - "ABBA fans have been banned from wearing 1970s “disco wigs” to the pop group’s virtual concert because they are “culturally insensitive”."

Meme - Kiki KingInExileKiki: "What if we kissed by the Trans-inclusive anti-homeless spikes?"
"Black Lives Matter. Women’s rights are human rights. No human is illegal. Science is real. Love is love. Kindness is everything"
sleepykk: "Imagine spreading love and hate at the same time"

Meme - Pandaskills: "Apparently I need to give this guy a blood sample to prove my Ethnicity!
Tyler Nazo: "Prove that your Asian. I think it's pretty important that you prove that you're Asian with the persona you put on. Or you should stop the insult if you're not actually Asian" PandaSkills: "pretty sure my face proves that I'm Asian..."

Meme - Monster: "Uh... I'm sorry ma'am, but this is a support group for monsters only."
Human: "Well, actually, I AM a monster."
Monster: "... How?"
Human: Well, you see, my mother was a mermaid, and my father was a minotaur.
Monster: "Riiight. And let me guess: you got the human half from both of them."
Human: "Exactly!"
Monster: "Gotcha. Hardy har har."
Monster: "Ya know, it's insensitive mockery like this that makes us need these groups in the first place."
Human: "Huh?"
Human: "Listen sir, I'm just here to drop off my brother and I'll be on my way."
Monster 2 (bull top, fish bottom): "This guy buggin' you sis'?"
Human with tail: "I'll be back to pick you up at seven"
Monster 2: "Sounds good, thanks."
Liberals love to gatekeep identity based on looks, so

Is The EEOC Protecting Workers Or Discriminatory Employers? - "The Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC) is tasked by the U.S. Congress with enforcing federal laws that prohibit workplace discrimination but a recent analysis of EEOC complaints from 1997 to 2018 demonstrates how little the EEOC actually does with respect to enforcing those laws. The analysis was conducted by Paychex, Inc., a Rochester, NY – based company that provides payroll, human resource, and benefit outsourcing services to small and medium sized businesses. The Paychex data indicates the EEOC failed to failed to find discrimination in 87 percent of the almost 1.9 million cases filed by discrimination victims over the 21-year-period... The EEOC found reasonable cause for discrimination in only 4.6 percent of complaints and considered filing a lawsuit in only 3.2 percent of complaints. Annual statistics from the EEOC show that its percentage of reasonable cause determinations has declined considerably in recent years, from a high of 9.9 percent in 2001. The EEOC found reasonable cause in only 3.5 percent of complaints in 2018; 2.9 percent in 2017, and; 3.2 percent in 2016... The 21-year-retrospective of EEOC complaint handling ultimately raises a question about whether the “system” is working to protect discrimination victims or is it, instead, helping to shield discriminatory employers from the consequences of violating federal civil rights laws?"
Statistics
Alternative interpretation: with victim culture, more and more accusations of discrimination are unreasonable

Meme - "DONT SAY YOU CELEBRATE PRIDE MONTH IF YOU DON'T KNOW WHO THIS GAY ICON IS.
Jeffrey Dahmer: COME SEE MY FRIDGE."

Meme - "Here's a new one. I disagreed with the popular opinion about a movie.
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From Tiamat's D&D Meme Group. This is a telling insight into the liberal mentality. Disagreement with liberal groupthink is taken as harassment, bad faith and having an agenda. So when liberals allege "harassment" and "bullying", you really need to take it with a pound of salt

Meme - Daily Loud: "14-Year-Old rapper Lil Tuda shot & killed in Chicago *innocent look*" Anthony Cumia @AnthonyCu...: "Maybe show THIS picture for a bit more context. *holding gun*"

Meme - "Remember that what exists today was dismissed 15 years ago as a "paranoid unlikely slippery slope""

One Restaurant Calls Allergy Diners 'Privileged' and 'Entitled' and Refuses Service - "Chef Jozef and Nathalie Slavik at Jennifer’s Restaurant-Picnic in Manitoba, Canada, have conflated picky eaters with people who have to eat a certain way for medical reasons... Dear Guests with Allergies, We sympathize with your situation. However, for our own safety, we will recommend that you do not eat here. It is simply not possible to guarantee each product used in this kitchen. Furthermore, we do not have the qualifications to provide you with the service you require...
Chef Jozef and Nathalie went on to insult people with food allergies by writing the following:
Are you one of the small group of people who have been living an entitled and privileged life? Then you have been very lucky. If you are one of the few who would like to substitute, modify, customize, etc. then please read on. Maybe your mother has taken the onions out of your salad, put the dressing on the side, or substitute your vegetables. Here, however, all meals are served precisely the way we prepare them. We do not offer custom meals. Remember, we are not your mother, and we definitely are not genies that will make your every wish come true. Here are some choices we leave you with:
1. Hire yourself a private chef.
2. Cook for yourself precisely the way you like!
3. Try another establishment.
4. Or, accept our hospitality as is.
We have been cooking for almost 50 years. We have many kind, friendly people, acquaintances, and families that have been coming for many decades. So, look around, it is a pleasure to see their happy smiles and provide them with the best food possible".
Classic misrepresentation of the original material to push a grievance mongering agenda. The restaurant is clearly trying to chase fussy eaters away. The fact that this is conflated with mocking people with allergies is telling - given that this is a gluten-free site and that we know that most people claiming to be allergic to gluten really aren't, it's clear why they jump to this conclusion

Meme - "Posted by u/ChineseRCheebyes 18 hours ago
SG Hero highlights racism
Sudhir Thomas Vadak: "I would like to lodge a complaint against the driver of this vehicle."
"As if your username is not extremely racist."
"holy shit i cracked"

Two Sweethearts



From the time after the internet but before mobile phones:



There were two high school sweethearts who went out together for four years in high school and were both virgins and enjoyed losing their virginity with each other in 10th grade. When they graduated, they wanted to both go to the same college but the girl was accepted to a college on the east coast, and the guy went to the west coast.

They agreed to be faithful to each other and spend anytime they could together. As time went on, the guy would call the girl but she was never home and when he wrote, she would take weeks to return any letters. Even when he e-mailed her, she took days to return his messages. Finally, she confessed to him that she wanted to date around. He didn't take this very well and increased his calls and letters and e-mails trying to win back her love. Because she became annoyed, and now had a new boyfriend, she wanted to get him off her back. So what she did was this:

She took a polaroid picture of her sucking her new boyfriend's unmentionables and sent it to her old boyfriend with a note reading, "I found a new boyfriend, leave me alone." Well needless to say, this guy was heartbroken, but even more so, he was pissed. So what he did next was awesome:

He wrote on the back of the photo the following: "Dear Mom and Dad, having a great time at college, please send more money!" and then mailed the picture to her parents.

Links - 6th July 2023 (1)

AN EMPIRICAL INVESTIGATION OF FINANCIAL AND OPERATIONAL EFFICIENCY OF PRIVATE VERSUS PUBLIC AIRPORTS - "In the United States, most airports used by commercial airlines are owned and operated by the public sector. However, the trend towards airport privatization in other countries has stimulated new thinking in this regard both from the federal government and businesses. As the privatization trend in the airport industry continues, airport managers are facing increased pressure to find more cost-efficient ways of running their airports, and implementing improvement standards will become a necessity. This paper compares the efficiency of privatized and government-owned airports using detailed information on fifteen airports, both private and public, chosen based on their similarity in hub size. Ratio and regression analyses were used for measuring airport performance. Findings indicate that government-owned airports have better operating efficiency in terms of passengers per runway area, movements per gate, and movements per runway, while privatized airports have higher financial efficiencies such as revenue per passenger and revenue per landing. Countries with privatized airports generally impose some form of price regulation or landing fees, so privatization does not always insure that citizens get the services they require from government at lower cost. Airport profitability appears to be the result of the relationship between regulatory controls, choice of market, market power and productivity."
Weird. We're told that the government always screws up and the private sector is always superior

Letter Grading Government Efficiency - "We mailed letters to non-existent business addresses in 159 countries (10 per country), and measured whether they come back to the return address in the United States and how long it takes. About 60% of the letters were returned, taking over six months, on average. The results provide new objective indicators of government efficiency across countries, based on a simple and universal service, and allow us to shed light on its determinants. The evidence suggests that both technology and management quality influence government efficiency, just as they do that of the private sector."

Senior counsel questions handling of Keppel bribery case as other lawyers weigh in; Indranee to address matter in Parliament - "A senior counsel has questioned the decision by Singapore authorities not to prosecute six former senior management staff members of Keppel Offshore & Marine for a US$55 million (S$73 million) bribery case involving Brazilian oil giant Petrobras... the Singapore Academy of Law, which manages the news service, said the article "was not within the editorial parameters of Singapore Law Watch which are focused on commentaries on the latest Singapore Supreme Court judgments and articles on recent legislative changes”... Mr Singh questioned the decision by the AGC and the Corrupt Practices Investigation Bureau (CPIB) made in January.  The two agencies had announced that they would not be prosecuting the six Keppel O&M employees for their involvement in the bribes allegedly paid to Brazilian state officials to secure 13 large contracts there.  Instead, the six will be given stern warnings.  Mr Singh asked if this decision signalled "a crack in Singapore's long professed policy of zero tolerance towards corruption", and whether Singaporeans should be concerned by the decision... He said non-prosecution could not be justified just because a corrupt scheme is complex and transactional, and said there is already a large amount of evidence of the scheme available and accessible to prosecutors.  The six former staff members appear to be within Singapore's jurisdiction, so CPIB has extensive investigative powers over them... Keppel O&M itself has openly admitted its involvement and paid a massive fine. This is also "one of the largest bribery scandals in Singapore's history" with the corrupt acts involving the wholly owned subsidiary of a Singapore public listed company...   Mr Singh also asked whether assistance has been sought from foreign authorities for any crucial foreign evidence and if such assistance has been refused.  "Is the evidence in this case such that not even a single individual was sufficiently blameworthy to warrant a prosecution?""

Meme - "I am Andrew Bustamante, a former covert CIA intelligence officer and founder of the Everyday Espionage training platform. Ask me anything."
"Does the cia use child prostitutes to control assets?"
"I plead the 5th. The things we use to control assets are unsettling enough without going into details."
"That's a scary fucking answer."

The real reason why millennials like me aren't going to the pub any more

The Neocons' Primary War Tactic: Branding Opponents of U.S. Intervention as Traitors - "One of the most bizarre but important dynamics of Trump-era U.S. politics is that the most fanatical war-hungry neocons, who shaped Bush/Cheney militarism, have become the most popular pundits and thought leaders in American liberalism. They have not changed in the slightest — they are employing the same tactics they have always invoked, and for the same causes — but they have correctly perceived that their agenda is better served by migrating back to the Democratic Party which originally spawned their bloodthirsty ideology.  The excuse offered by Democrats for their embrace of neocons — we did it only as a temporary coalition of convenience to oppose Trump — is false for many reasons. This unholy alliance pre-dated Trump... perhaps the most influential and beloved pundit in U.S. liberal political life now is former Bush White House speechwriter David Frum, now at The Atlantic and CNN. His cover stories for that magazine warning that Trump is an unprecedented evil (which has the convenient benefit of absolving him and the rest of the D.C. establishment of all their past sins) were passed around and celebrated as if they were this generation's Dead Sea scrolls... Frum condemned these anti-war conservatives of being guilty of every bigotry he could think of: racism, anti-Hispanic animus, and anti-Semitism. He concluded his lengthy accusatory screed with rhetoric that should sound very familiar to anyone who has heard Frum cast similar aspersions over the last five years toward anyone not as obsessed with Trump as he is, or more recently, not as eager as he is to send other people's kids or American resources to fight Russia... This rhetorical tactic — impugning the patriotism and loyalty of one's opponents — is now the dominant theme in American liberalism precisely because liberals are now led by neocons. Under this rubric, anyone (on the right or the left) who opposed Hillary Clinton and then Joe Biden during the Trump years was deemed not just wrong but treasonous: a Kremlin agent. That included Bernie Sanders, Jill Stein, WikiLeaks, leftist critics of Democrats, right-wing critics of Democrats, and in general anyone who echoed President Obama's long-standing view that Russia did not pose a serious threat to the U.S. I cannot count the number of times I have been accused of being a Kremlin agent or asset not by random social media trolls but by prominent Democratic Party and liberal media and political figures for expressing those views."
Weird. Liberals keep insisting their opponents are fascists, but an eagerness for war is a characteristic of fascism

Rebecca Katz on Twitter - "Never underestimate ⁦⁦@giselefetterman⁩. She really can do it all. 🔥"
Angry Arizonans on Twitter - "So she's back from vacation? Nice timing. Notice her jacket open, no helmet, no gear, hair down, on the phone while the other fire fighters are still in their gear. Seems like a publicity stunt to me."
Island Pouncer on Twitter - "My local volunteer fire department has pretty strict rules on hair length. Not that her department can’t have more relaxed rules but shouldn’t hers be tied up tight?"
ChristinaBistes on Twitter - "She wasn’t anywhere near that fire. Perfectly clean bunker gear speaks the truth. Truly disgusting."
Twan on Twitter - "So she donned a firefighters jacket, walked around, talked on the phone, and posed for pictures. Wow. 🙄"
PghFan16🇺🇸 on Twitter - "I honestly don't get the giant media hype over this. I was a firefighter for 15+ yrs with some of the best in the business in the Pittsburgh area in my opinion and not one of them was ever featured in the media for doing such a job for free nor given an outpouring of support bc of it and honestly no offense but bc she is the wife of a man that shouldn't even be a Senator she is given all this attention when most of the members at the station she pretends at have been at it for years. Our society really is ass-backward with the ppl who get fawned over."
Haldalorian, NAFO Adjacent on Twitter - "And didn't wear a helmet, which is unsafe and stupid, unlike oh, all the other firefighters who were actually doing something."

Shaq Reveals Why He Rejected a $40 Million Sneaker Deal With Reebok - "he was confronted by a woman who scolded him for selling his signature Rebook shoes at a price that many of his younger fans could not afford. “That day, I cut ties with Reebok,” he said of forgoing a $40 million deal he had with the brand following a moment of clarity. “I said keep the money… this ain’t right. I’ll still wear the shoes I do during the season, but I’ll be looking to do my own thing,” he said. “So, I started the Shaq brand. I went to my favorite store, Walmart, and we did a deal. I was in all stores and my price point for the shoes was $29-$19 and since then we sold over 400 million pairs.” He added that he brought on designers from Reebok to join him in the new Walmart venture. “It’s not kids that don’t want to wear $20 shoes, they don’t want to wear shoes that look like they cost $20.” Shaq eventually began selling a line of Shaq brand shoes at Walmart that he said in 2016 sold “over 120 million pairs of affordable shoes for kids.” The TV personality isn’t the only NBA start to sell affordable shoes, as the ex-New York Knicks player Stephon Marbury endorsed his own range of Starbury sneakers, which sell for as little as $14.98."

Incredible moment another snake emerges from mouth of red-bellied black snake - "A snake catcher got more than he bargained for after being called to remove a red-bellied black snake from a Gold Coast yard.  When Mitch Thorburn from South East Reptile Relocations approached the snake he could tell it had recently eaten, but he did not expect it to regurgitate its meal still alive... the baby eastern brown is still flicking its tongue despite being partially consumed by another animal.""-

Would You Eat This 3D Printed Cheesecake? - "cooking food through a medium such as a 3D printer allows for better control over the nutritional content, leading to healthier food consumption.  “This food printing movement is just starting,” Jonathan Blutinger, an engineer at Columbia’s Creative Machines Lab in New York, said in an email to Gizmodo. He added that the technology is starting with manufacturers as plant-based products and will then move to restaurants where chefs “can create new flavor experiences for patrons and delectable dishes that are made to order,” and finally, “it will find its way into our homes as a kitchen appliance.” Printing food has additional benefits and according to the study, “more emphasis on food safety following COVID-19, food prepared with less human handling may lower the risk of foodborne illness and disease transmission.”... Food created by 3D printers could also have an extended shelf life, the report states, and could reduce food waste since consumers would have the option to print only the amount of food they need"

Uproar as Liberal minister's in-law named interim ethics commissioner - "Newly appointed Interim Ethics Commissioner Martine Richard is the sister-in-law of Intergovernmental Affairs Minister Dominic LeBlanc — a veteran parliamentarian with a history of running afoul of Canada’s conflict-of-interest laws... Holland said questions concerning Richard’s integrity are “conspiracy theories” that belong on the internet discussion website Reddit rather than in the House of Commons... “A first cousin of Mr. LeBlanc’s spouse, Mr. Gilles Theriault, could have benefited financially from an Arctic surf clam licence being awarded to the Five Nations Clam Company,” then-Ethics Commissioner Mario Dion commented at the time. “If a public office holder is aware of a potential opportunity to further the private interests of a relative through the exercise of an official power, duty or function, the public office holder must be vigilant in avoiding such conflicts of interest.”  Now retired from his post, Dion said earlier this year that the Trudeau government needs to pay closer attention to ethics. “The Act has been there for 17 years, for God’s sake, so maybe the time has come to do something different so that we don’t keep repeating the same errors”...  International Trade Minister Mary Ng broke ethics rules by awarding a contract to a friend’s public relations firm.  Prime Minister Justin Trudeau violated ethics rules twice — first in 2017 for accepting a family vacation at the Aga Khan’s private island in the Bahamas, and again two years later for improperly trying to influence former Justice Minister Jody Wilson-Raybould into dropping criminal prosecution into SNC-Lavalin...   Ethics watchdog and Democracy Watch co-founder Duff Conacher said LeBlanc’s relationship to Richard is no secret around Parliament Hill, and in 2019 even filed a complaint with the federal integrity commissioner over it. “But the ethics commissioner’s office is not covered by the Public Servants Disclosure Protection Act, and so the integrity commissioner couldn’t investigate to ensure that Richard had recused herself from any investigation relating to LeBlanc,” Conacher told the National Post.  “Even if she did recuse herself from any such investigation, she headed up the investigations and legal department, and everyone who worked for her would know about her conflict, and that she would want any wrongdoing by LeBlanc to be covered up or excused, and likely any wrongdoing by LeBlanc’s longtime friend and boss Trudeau also covered up or excused.”  Having such a close relation to a cabinet minister in such a role, he said, undermines the integrity of the commissioner’s investigations."
Conflict of interest is something liberals always talk about, but it doesn't apply to things they approve of

Electricity can heal even the worst kind of wounds three times faster, new study finds

Real estate developer's proposal to girlfriend derailed after Bahamas immigration refused her entry - "A Miami-based real estate developer said his proposal plan was derailed when a bigoted immigration official refused his girlfriend and her sister entry to the Bahamas on suspicion they were sex workers.   Hal 'Nuby' Sears, 64, had been planning to ask his girlfriend to marry him during a nine-day trip to the Bahamas, during which they were planning on staying on a 70-foot yacht.  Darina Pînzaru, 25, and her sister Ina, 36, from Moldova, were denied entry in an act of prejudice, and sent back to London"

What ‘Demolition Man’ Has Gotten Right—so Far - "Self-driving electric cars? Check.
Humans using computers to increase their self esteem? Check.
Zoom meetings? Check.
Arnold Schwarzenegger’s entry into politics? Check.
Attention spans the length of goldfish? Check.
Voice-activated search in homes? Check.
Digital currency? Check.
Tablets? Check.
Portable phones that access the internet? Check.
Anti-smoking laws, language police, germaphobia, and gun control? Check. Check. Check. Check...
If dystopia arrives, what will it look like?  Oftentimes dystopia is depicted as malevolent and totalitarian, like in Orwell’s Nineteen-Eighty Four. Sometimes it’s a desolate wasteland of violence, like in Cormac McCarthy’s The Road or Mad Max. But sometimes, like in Aldous Huxley’s novel Brave New World, on which Demolition Man is very loosely based, dystopia is soft, prosperous, and caring—but just as sinister.  The Christian philosopher C.S. Lewis once wrote that of all the tyrannies on earth, none was as oppressive as that which was exercised for the benefit of its victims...   This was the tyranny Edgard Friendly couldn’t stomach. It wasn’t Big Brother that drove Edgar Friendly underground, it was something closer to the Nanny State.  And if we’re being honest, many of Friendly’s grievances speak to our world today. When he says he’s the kind of guy “who wants to sit in a greasy spoon and think, ‘Gee, should I have the T-bone steak or the jumbo rack of barbecued ribs,’” I don’t think he was referring to the synthetic beef Bill Gates wants to shift the world to to save the planet.  When Friendly talks about free speech, it’s hard not to think about the growing hostility to free expression on social media, university campuses, and in corporate workplaces. When he says he’s into freedom of choice, the last two years of the pandemic loom large, as the Cocteaus in our world made decisions for billions of people. Wear the mask. Stay home. Get the shot. And do not complain or protest; because we’re all in this together."

S'pore woman loses lawsuit against unfaithful psychiatrist whom she had affair with, judge says 'no true winner' in case - "A woman embarked on a "quest for revenge" after learning that the male psychiatrist whom she had an affair with was unfaithful to her...   Serene Tiong Sze Yin, entered into an intimate extramarital affair with Chan Herng Nieng, the owner and psychiatrist at Capital Mind Health Clinic, while she was married in early 2017, according to court documents.  All was smooth sailing until Tiong unlocked Chan's phone with his thumbprint while he was asleep.  She discovered explicit WhatsApp messages where Chan exchanged "sordid" details and bragged about his sexual conquests with other married women to one Julian Ong Kian Peng, who is a colorectal surgeon who operates Julian Ong Endoscopy & Surgery Pte Ltd.  This took place towards the tail-end of the couple's overseas trip and their relationship began to crumble after they returned from the eastern European holiday on Apr. 25, 2018.  This was despite Tiong wanting to to continue the relationship initially.  She intended to marry Chan eventually, but he "spurned her love for him", and Tiong thus began her "quest for revenge"... She took their "lover's spat" to court and alleged that Chan was medically negligent – breached professional conduct and his duty of care – by plying her with high dosages of a supposedly addictive drug, Xanax, amongst other things.  Tiong claimed that she became addicted and suffered significant side effects after consuming Xanax... she alleged that Chan made a statement saying to her that "he was committed to having a long-term and exclusive sexual relationship with her" to e her into sexual relations with him all whilst without the intention of honouring it. As a result, she claimed that she has supposedly suffered significant psychiatric harm at the hands of Chan. High Court judge Tan Siong Thye presided over the Jul. 19 hearing and detailed his findings as follows... Justice Tan noted that Chan and Tiong had a pre-existing sexual relationship and were lovers before she became his "patient" and he gave her Xanax... Justice Tan found that Tiong was a thoroughly unreliable witness who gave inconsistent evidence on oath and even changed her statement multiple times when she took to the stand, amongst other things, according to court documents.  As such, he believed Chan's version of events -- specifically the number and frequency of Xanax prescribed -- over Tiong's...   With regard to Tiong's claim that Chan had made a false statement of having a long-term and exclusive relationship with her to induce her to have sex with him, Justice Tan raised the question of whether one can take one's ex-lover to court for his or her broken promises during the relationship.  For starters, there was a lack of evidence and Tiong could not point to an instance when Chan had explicitly made the statement.  Justice Tan also noted that Tiong changed tune during cross-examination.  Tiong had said Chan did not make such a statement, but she arrived at the belief that Chan was committed to a long-term and exclusive sexual relationship with her based on his conduct, according to court documents.  Justice Tan found otherwise, as Chan had raised the topic of having group sex with Tiong in several instances throughout their "relationship". Chan had also expressed that he was "fine" if Tiong wished to see other men, "as long as she [was] upfront with [him] about it", after he found out that she was still communicating with two of her ex-lovers, one of which was her ex-husband.  Lastly, Chan was having sex with other married women behind Tiong's back... Justice Tan said a long-term and exclusive relationship was ultimately Tiong's unreciprocated one-sided intention due to the lack of evidence and Chan's contradictory conduct, amongst other things.  He also noted that the pair had sex just two weeks after they met and therefore refuted Tiong's claim that Chan had made the statement to have sex with her.  Finally, he threw out Tiong's claim of suffering psychiatric harm at the hands of Chan's false statement. If that were the case, she would not have continued in a relationship with Chan... Describing Tiong's actions as vitriolic, he noted that the case was best described by the adage, "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.""
I'm surprised AWARE didn't excoriate the judge
This is like the man who sued the woman for friendzoning him

Longer suspensions for 2 doctors who tried to exploit patient for sex - "Colorectal surgeon Julian Ong, who sent contact details of his patient to psychiatrist Chan Herng Nieng and told him, “Feel free to play your game”... The WhatsApp message exchanges documented conversations where the two doctors discussed the possibility of group sex and their history of having affairs with married women, among other things."

Woman Suing Man ‘Coz He Didn’t Keep to an ‘Exclusive Relationship’ With Her & It Happened in S’pore - "as for the breakup, he claims that the cause was the S$150K extortion that Ms Tiong initiated.  Ms Tiong had allegedly threatened to publicise screenshots of private WhatsApp messages between him and his close surgeon friend, Dr Julian Ong... Ms Tiong was apparently issued a warning by the police in Jan 2020 for attempted extortion."

Someone in Toronto ate 712 slices to write their PhD thesis on pizza - "The dissertation explores the importance Italian immigrants played in both Toronto and Buffalo in the 1900s... By the 80s, Toronto's wealthy middle class sought out more luxurious pizza styles as ways to project their affulence.   Influenced by the Southern Californian style popularized by Hollywood, toppings like eggplant, ricotta cheese, red peppers, and smoked salmon were used.  The use of premium ingredients like heirloom tomatoes, asparagus, and truffle oil are said to have been born out of this period- much of which we still see to this day."

SQ207 SIN to MEL breakfast. Pathetic siol : singapore
Comments: "When they got SATS to cater Army cookhouse food, it ended up the other way around."
"Once I kena fried ngoh hiang, braised ngoh hiang, chopped ngoh hiang with cabbage and ngoh hiang soup.  Course warrant forgot to indent dinner for us, we thought can book out early (on Friday). Cookhouse was washing up for the day.  Then course warrant backtrack and said, no must eat dinner before booking out. Forced the cookhouse to prepare dinner for us.  Everyone felt bad."
"This one if complain hotline can be big issue.  Source: CQMS who has gotten enough threats. Haha."
"I remember the food in the cookhouse was so bad (this was even before SATS) that we would save up our combat rations just in case the cookhouse was serving sambal fish. When we saw that it was, we'll collect it, dump straight into the bin and go eat our leftover combat rations. It even tasted better."

Stop Using So Much Laundry Detergent - "If you’ve ever reached into your dryer expecting to pull out a load of downy-soft laundry only to find a pile of stiff, starchy garments, there’s a good chance you’re using too much laundry detergent.  Laundry detergent obviously gets dirt and stains out of your clothes, but if you use too much, you wind up creating a new mess. This is a result of detergent residue that hasn’t been fully rinsed out, and it can turn your previously soft wardrobe into a crunchy, scratchy, uncomfortable-to-wear load of clothes. Too much detergent also creates a surplus of suds that can prevent your garments from rubbing against one another (which helps release trapped dirt from your clothes), according to Tide’s website.  Though it seems counterintuitive, the more detergent you use past a certain point, the dirtier your clothes become. To effectively clean your clothes, you need to use only 2 tablespoons per load at most—and that’s for big loads weighing 12 pounds or more. As staff writer Sarah Bodgan and senior staff writer Liam McCabe say in our guide to the best washing machines, 1 tablespoon is enough to thoroughly clean an average load, which usually weighs around 8 pounds... It can be even worse if you’re using high-efficiency (HE) detergent, which is made from high-concentration, low-sudsing formulas and can be used in both traditional and HE machines. Liam and Sarah explain that HE detergents are at least double the concentration of traditional detergents"

Fisher Investments Canada reviews how politics can affect markets - "no party is better or worse for stocks.  For example, leaders from both major U.K. parties have been in power during bear markets (prolonged, fundamentally driven broad equity market declines of -20 per cent or worse) as well as bull markets (long periods of generally rising equity prices)... This trend holds true in other major developed nations, too... stocks don’t see policies themselves as good or bad. Rather, we think they care about the scale of overall change a given piece of legislation could bring, especially if it involves the areas we find affect stocks most, including property rights, regulations and other factors that can impact the ease of doing business or future profits. Why? In our view, it is because the chief thing you own when you buy a stock is a stake in the company’s future profits. Based on our research, governments shifting their rules unexpectedly can complicate business planning or delay investment as firms wait for the dust to settle — and that uncertainty and lack of risk-taking can weigh on stocks. Another problem? In our experience, all legislation — no matter how well intentioned — creates winners and losers...   In our view, this is a reason why stocks generally prefer political gridlock in developed economies with stable institutions that respect the rule of law... Now, we aren’t saying political gridlock means governments can’t pass any legislation. However, we have found much of what passes tends to become less extreme than initially proposed, as competing parties push for their own interests — leading to bargaining and compromising. In Fisher Investments Canada’s experience, that more moderate result means little sweeping legislative change — an important benefit of gridlock for investors."

Saudi Arabia says it welcomes LGBTQ visitors - "Same-sex sexual activity is an offense in Saudi Arabia, according to Human Rights Watch.  According to the Human Dignity Trust, which campaigns for the rights of LGBT people around the world, trans people can also face prosecution in Saudi, with “substantial evidence of the law being enforced” and “consistent reports of discrimination and violence” against LGBTQ people.  LGBTQ+ travelers are a lucrative market, according to Darren Burn, CEO of Out Of Office, a luxury travel planning service for the community, and of Travel Gay, the world’s largest LGBTQ+ travel platform.  “Research shows they spend more money in a destination than heterosexual couples, and tend to travel more times a year,” he told CNN."

Missing Australian woman survived on wine, candy for 5 days in bushland - "The 48-year-old woman, who police identified in a press release as only "Lillian," was rescued by helicopter on May 5 in the Mitta Mitta bushland, a stretch of dense eucalyptus forest in the southeastern state of Victoria.  Lillian was driving towards Dartmouth Dam for a day trip from the nearby town of Bright when she hit a dead-end road and realized she'd made a wrong turn. As she tried to turn her car around, the vehicle became stuck in mud.  Without cell service, she was unable to call for help. Health issues made it difficult for her to try to walk, police said, but ultimately may have helped her survive, as she was able to use the car heater overnight to stay warm in temperatures as low as 35 degrees. Planning for only a two-hour drive, Lillian had only a few snacks, some candy and a bottle of wine, which she'd intended as a gift for her mother. Lillian doesn't drink, police said, but she eventually consumed the bottle, her only liquid."

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