"She runs the gamut of emotions from A to B." - Dorothy Parker, speaking of Katharine Hepburn

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Me: haha
you don't like drinking with girls?

Someone: not particularly
i don't dislike nor like

Me: but you like drinking with guys

Someone: yah because they go crazy
and usually not slutty

[usually] the guys want to pick and choose the girls
machiam picking out a piece of meat.
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Me: HAHAHAHAHAHA

are they picking chio/cute/hot girls
are are they picking non-annoying girls

Someone: i do not know or understand their picking criteria
its worse than girls lah

Me: do you know/understand girls' picking criteria

Someone: yeah, at least i think i do, from my * years in all-girls schools

depends lah, for my main group of friends its: sluts are out. usually bitches are out though we end up bitching about them
but in general, if they dress/think/talk similarly, they're all invited hahaah

Me: ><

Someone: and guys invited are usually: i) good looking, or ii) bag caddies

Me: >< x2

Someone: yeah
its brutal but its straightforward

ahahaah
which is why i like to create invite lists for girls vs guys

Me: well
the guys' one is probably "cute/chio/hot"

Someone: yeah but within the chio/cute/hot there's like so many other weird variations


Someone else: you have a psycho magnet somewhere is it? did you anger some witch doctor who cursed you to always attract these kinds of people


Someone: i'm sure you'll know, with first hand experience, that it's tough for women to be consistent with their everyday presences-- perpetually, we've got multiple issues and are naturally erratic


Someone else: was flipping my friend's guidebook on budget travel in southeast asia. the opening sentence for the chapter on malaysia totally summed it up for everyone: "malaysia is less exotic than thailand, less developed than singapore, and more expensive than indonesia."

how tactful
might as well just say 'don't bother'

Me: frankly would you recommend singapore as a destination

Someone else: 3-day trip, perhaps.
if wanna explore hdb estates outside central zone, then 5-day

actually the cnn and bbc covers of F1 also never failed to remind readers that the host of g.p. night race is 'this affluent, but authoritarian, city-state'

so much for all the effort
but i think lee jr. still quite happy

let me do it again:

[You:] frankly would you recommend singapore as a destination

yes. because i'm here.

Me: gah
wth


Someone: i want to be selfish and think about singapore as little as possible. it's not worth the time and effort to me, honestly

and it becomes a fixation
takes over you
prevents self-development etc

Me: one reason why I don't blog much politically
or keep that up to date on politics here


Someone else: like, dont get yourself arrested ok

also, i don't care for politics
right now, i'm more concerned about why my program isn't working right


Someone: circumcision is proven to be good for health
reduces risk of contracting STDs, especially AIDS

for men, anyway

female circumcision is completely different
and the worst thing you can do for a woman

Me: pfft

circumcision for men can go wrong
horribly wrong

and that's like saying if your earlobes are dirty, cut them off
stupid


and female circumcision doesn't always involve cutting the clitoris
you can cut the labia a little also. which is analogous to male circumcision
there're women who've been circumcised wgo stil get orgasms

Someone: it depends on the extent, yes
but it has absolutely no benefit for women, while posing health risks

Me: if you circumcise the women in a clean, medical environment, like men are, there're no health risks

and I'm quite sure research would reveal some benefits in some way
but unfortunately it's not safe to carry out such research
and anyway it's hard to get a suitable sample and control group

Someone: soo... if you stitch up their labia in a sterile environment, that's not a health risk?

Me: stitching up the labia is not the same as circumcision
you're referring to the measure to make them tighter for their men?

Someone: no
there are different grades of it, and the procedure also depends on the culture they are in

Me: yep
so blanket calls for banning female circumcision are simplistic

for the record I am against all forms of genital mutilation
male or female
at least against minors

Someone: there really isn't a religious justification for it, though

Me: eh hello
the aztecs had religious justification for sacrificing people to the sun god

Someone: quick qn
what about clit piercings and cock rings? :D

Me: if you're 18, go ahead

do you have a princess albertina? :0

Someone: of course not

Me: aww
I'm told if you do, a vibrator becomes even more heavenly than it is

Someone: *shudders*
yeah i know, but i dont think it is worth it

Me: I saw a video of a woman getting one once
it looked painful

do you know anyone with one :P

Someone: i knew a guy who had a gf with it
he said oral sex was awesome for her after that