This sounds exhausting and inevitably headed towards disaster:
"I'm looking for a potential in real life friend who
lives in or around Toronto. I'd love someone to go on
adventures with. Explore, attend events, do activities
together, and go to restaurants together. As of right
now, everything I do, I do alone. I would like that to
change. I recently saw The Devil Wears Prada(band)
and Coco in concert. I have other upcoming concerts
coming up and it would be great if you could join me!
Besides concerts, there are other places I would like to
go to that I wouldn't go to alone. FUN! Hahah.
A little about me:
. I have been vegan for over 15 years.
. I don't drink, use drugs and smoke anything.
. I exercise, but been struggling to stay consistent
lately. Dare to help me stay accountable? (Health is
very important to me if you haven't noticed .... Hahah)
. I value life and am anti-violence. Seeing violence
in movies/tv shows does bring me discomfort at
times ... Depending on the context. However, it doesn't
prevent me from watching it elther.
. I crochet and currently working on a scarf and
dino(on hiatus). Perhaps you could watch me crochet
something ... For you?
. I view myself as a progressive.
. I'm 6'3 and weigh about 165 lbs. I also have long
messy hair.
. My background is Guyana. (Meaning that that my
skin isn't white for you racists)
. I play Apex Legends too much(LETS PLAY
TOGETHER!), but apparently Bloons has something to
say about that.
. I listen to Neoclassical(epic music), some Synthwave,
OSTs of movies/tv shows, Post-Hardcore/Metal.
Concerts are fun!
. I have social anxiety issues and was diagnosed
with bipolar 2 when I was 21, but I'm fairly certain
that I don't have that. Oh, lovely trauma. I'm
currently speaking with a therapist, which has
been ... Tumultuous? It seems that I'm on a break. The
"healing" process is a difficult one.
. I'm open, honest, kind, gentle, patient and
affectionate. In other words, I'm amazing :) However,
I'm also very sensitive and fragile at the same time. (Be
kind and gentle with me! Hahah)
Potential red flags:
. I'm emotionally unavailable to an extent. I can
be there for you, but I'm not looking to be anyone's
boyfriend or bestfriend, Just simple friends and
whatever happens, happens.
. I'm very sensitive and fragile. I don't do well with
abrasiveness. If you're mean to me, I might begin to
withdraw and become very quiet. I'm a very forgiving
person though and don't hold grudges.
. Apparently I look, sound, and act young for my age.
However, I'm apparently emotionally mature.
There's more I can say, but I think these are important and I would prefer that we get to know each other over a call. I super look forward to meeting you and getting to know you!
I do have some boundaries though:
. We will not discuss politics unless you are anti-NATO
and anti-Imperialist.
. Please don't bring up your love for meat (or food in
general). Veganism will not be brought up unless you're
sincerely open to becoming one yourself.
. Please don't ask me about work or school. When I'm
comfortable, I can talk to you about those things.
. Not to sound ableist, but I would rather not talk
with someone who has a habit/history of ghosting/
avoidance or pulling a 180 the next day.
. Don't try to save me. I will disappoint you. Just be my
friend.
P.S. Please leave at least a short introduction of yourself and why you chose to contact me. Thank you!
Oh ... And here's a picture of me: https://imgur.com/a /pIDHq9v"