Tuesday, February 20, 2024

When SJWs try to make friends

This sounds exhausting and inevitably headed towards disaster:


"I'm looking for a potential in real life friend who lives in or around Toronto. I'd love someone to go on adventures with. Explore, attend events, do activities together, and go to restaurants together. As of right now, everything I do, I do alone. I would like that to change. I recently saw The Devil Wears Prada(band) and Coco in concert. I have other upcoming concerts coming up and it would be great if you could join me! Besides concerts, there are other places I would like to go to that I wouldn't go to alone. FUN! Hahah.

A little about me:

. I have been vegan for over 15 years.
. I don't drink, use drugs and smoke anything.
. I exercise, but been struggling to stay consistent lately. Dare to help me stay accountable? (Health is very important to me if you haven't noticed .... Hahah)
. I value life and am anti-violence. Seeing violence in movies/tv shows does bring me discomfort at times ... Depending on the context. However, it doesn't prevent me from watching it elther.
. I crochet and currently working on a scarf and dino(on hiatus). Perhaps you could watch me crochet something ... For you?
. I view myself as a progressive.
. I'm 6'3 and weigh about 165 lbs. I also have long messy hair.
. My background is Guyana. (Meaning that that my skin isn't white for you racists)
. I play Apex Legends too much(LETS PLAY TOGETHER!), but apparently Bloons has something to say about that.
. I listen to Neoclassical(epic music), some Synthwave, OSTs of movies/tv shows, Post-Hardcore/Metal. Concerts are fun!
. I have social anxiety issues and was diagnosed with bipolar 2 when I was 21, but I'm fairly certain that I don't have that. Oh, lovely trauma. I'm currently speaking with a therapist, which has been ... Tumultuous? It seems that I'm on a break. The "healing" process is a difficult one.
. I'm open, honest, kind, gentle, patient and affectionate. In other words, I'm amazing :) However, I'm also very sensitive and fragile at the same time. (Be kind and gentle with me! Hahah)

Potential red flags:

. I'm emotionally unavailable to an extent. I can be there for you, but I'm not looking to be anyone's boyfriend or bestfriend, Just simple friends and whatever happens, happens.
. I'm very sensitive and fragile. I don't do well with abrasiveness. If you're mean to me, I might begin to withdraw and become very quiet. I'm a very forgiving person though and don't hold grudges.
. Apparently I look, sound, and act young for my age. However, I'm apparently emotionally mature.

There's more I can say, but I think these are important and I would prefer that we get to know each other over a call. I super look forward to meeting you and getting to know you!

I do have some boundaries though:

. We will not discuss politics unless you are anti-NATO and anti-Imperialist.
. Please don't bring up your love for meat (or food in general). Veganism will not be brought up unless you're sincerely open to becoming one yourself.
. Please don't ask me about work or school. When I'm comfortable, I can talk to you about those things.
. Not to sound ableist, but I would rather not talk with someone who has a habit/history of ghosting/ avoidance or pulling a 180 the next day.
. Don't try to save me. I will disappoint you. Just be my friend.

P.S. Please leave at least a short introduction of yourself and why you chose to contact me. Thank you!

Oh ... And here's a picture of me: https://imgur.com/a /pIDHq9v"

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