Thursday, July 27, 2023

Links - 27th July 2023 (2 - Women)

Married Welsh man wins harassment case after female colleague repeatedly pestered him for sex - "A married man has won a harassment case after a female colleague 'many years his junior' repeatedly pestered him for sex, messaged his wife telling her to imagine him cheating on her and threatened to get him fired if he reported her.     Maintenance man Andrew Weatherby, 50, was sent a series of increasingly explicit texts by the admin assistant who told him to 'think of the fun' they could have.  He said he felt 'intimidated and offended' by his much younger colleague, who he worked with at cleaning supplies company Amcrol Limited, based in Flintshire, Wales, and begged her to leave him alone. But when he threatened to report her to their boss she threatened to make 'his life hell.' The woman sent a series of mocking emails and messages to Mr Weatherby's wife telling her to imagine her husband cheating on her... Mr Weatherby eventually made a formal complaint about her behaviour but he ended up getting suspended five days before she was and was eventually sacked"
Weird how she is unnamed

I married my high school bully – he teased me but I forgave him - "Lauren Enslow, 20, married Lucas Olsen, 21, despite the fact he bullied her at school when she was 15."

Woman creates fake Tinder profile as a man and assumes it will be 'easy' to get dates - "An 18-year-old woman created a fake profile to go undercover on Tinder to see what it's really like for men on dating apps — and she was shocked to discover that it was not as easy as she imagined.  YouTuber Alexander Grace teamed up with his friend Sada for the social experiment, providing her with photos of himself to use for her fake Tinder profile.    Sada admitted that she thought it would be 'easy peasy' to get matches with Alex's pictures, and assumed she'd be lining up dates in no time — but she was discouraged to get fewer matches than she thought, and even more frustrated to be met with radio silence when she would initiate conversation... 'I am not motivated, I am not happy with the results,' she said... 'If I compared the experience that a woman has on a dating app and that a man has on a dating app, it's much different. And it's weird that I struggled so much. And if I changed my picture to a woman, I don't struggle at all.   'This is not very healthy,' she said. 'I'm [feeling] down now and it's not even my damn picture.'... 'Maybe I was ignorant,' she says, explaining that she has rethought what it's like for guys on dating apps. 'I just feel sorry for guys and stuff. I don't think this is good for anyone, really.  She added that she thought it would be especially easy for her because she herself is a woman. 'I was like, I know what they want to hear, I know what they want. I was so confident,' she said, but added that now she is 'so confused.'  Men commenting on the video and on Reddit are less confused.  'Yeah dating apps are probably the most depressing experience an average guy can have,' wrote one.   'She kept pointing out that he is actually attractive and educated... Imagine what "average" guys experience,' wrote another."

Meme - "Girls with Photoshop: OMG I'm gonna make my butt bigger!
Boys with Photoshop: *Cat as Norse warrior*"

Bushra Shaikh on Twitter - "I regularly see women whine about cooking but hardly men moan about paying the bills."

Meme - Lashanna @onlylashanna: "Liking a female's picture is cheating btw."
Eros @erossexpalace: "Is a female liking a males picture cheating?"
Lashanna @onlylashanna: "Please stop deflecting"
Eros @erossexpalace: "I'm not deflecting. I'm simply asking a question for overall clarity"
Lashanna @onlylashanna: "Women don't have the instincts to cheat like men. Therefore, our intentions are very different."

Unemployed bride-to-be complains that her fiancé won't get 2nd job - "The post begins, “Help, I need advice. My fiancé and I are having lots of issues right now, we can’t stop fighting and I don’t know what to do. I quit my job because wedding planning was taking up so much time, and my fiancé is refusing to get a second job.” The unemployed woman goes on to explain why she can’t possibly work, and how she expects her husband to pick up the extra slack. “He doesn’t understand that I don’t have time to get ready for work, drive to work, be somewhere else all day and drive home,” she explains. “I need to be home to plan this wedding. I’m trying to find a job from home but it is difficult. I asked him to get a second job and he won’t.”  Making matters worse, it seems as though the bride and groom have different ideas about how much to spend on the wedding. “It really pisses me off because we are spending $80,000 on this wedding and he keeps saying we should spend less. Uh, hello, no. This is my wedding I have been dreaming of since I was little and I refuse to have anything but my dream wedding. How can I convince him to work a second job to pay for this? What happened to ‘happy wife, happy life?’”... Many readers seemed to agree that this woman’s behavior was a warning sign."

Meme - "WHEN YOU GO THROUGH HIS PHONE AND CALL "SIDE CHICK" AND YOUR PHONE STARTS RINGING"

Meme - hannah @hanalyzed: "The dating pool for young women is literally
Authoritarian Left: - Performative "woke" men who still treat women like shit
Authoritarian Right: Narcissistic (if not sociopathic) gym bros
Centrist: - Emotionally distant manipulators
Libertarian Left: "Sensitive" guys you have to perform constant emotional labour for
Libertarian Right: - Porn addicts"

Meme - Seer Enoch: "Fellas, value yourself enough to never take back a cheater, she will blame it on everything else other than herself or just cry with a sorry to try an manipulate you to stop being mad at her and to forgive her. Don't"
Meme: "Before you forgive her for cheating, remember that the other dude had her like this: And remember at one point it slipped out and she put it back in
P.S, that dude asked her if she liked it and she said yeeeaaahhhh"
Olivia Jachim: "Okay incel, have fun being alone"

Aneska on Twitter - "If he smells like fabric softener he’s in a relationship."

Meme - "just went out wearing my 1920s clothing and heard a girl ask her mom if i was a ghost to which her mom replied "no, i think thats just a lesbian""

Woolshed on Hindley's controversial promotion offering women free drinks based on their bra size - "A popular pub has been blasted after a controversial promotion offering free drinks to women depending on their bra size, with the slogan 'the bigger the better'.   The Woolshed on Hindley in central Adelaide advertised a free drink special for patrons, at the price of them taking off their tops... Female partygoers would receive one free drink for an A cup bra size, two free drinks for a B cup and three free drinks for a C cup... Bras were hung from the walls inside the nightclub as a part of the campaign.  But some patrons took to social media to slam the promotion, with the backlash forcing the Woolshed to cancel the event and share a grovelling apology."

Meme - "Understanding starts with knowing how to communicate!
Men's brains: *brain to penis*
Women's brains: *brain to mouth*
Communication is key to any great relationship!
*Oral sex*"

Sex worker for mature men SAMANTHA X reveals why married men cheat - "There's two things I know men are very good at. The first one is separating love and sex. And the second one is lying... If there's one thing married men taught me, it was not to get married. If you wanted to ruin a great relationship, walk down the aisle. (If you're happily married, good for you. Come back to me in 30 years).  Another thing I learnt was that the sex industry was not about sex. And the number one reason why men saw escorts?  Connection. That's right, connection.  As an escort, I didn't swing from chandeliers or go to secret dungeon sex clubs (disappointing, I know). The service that was requested most was the girlfriend experience – and that meant listening, supporting, and guiding.  Here are my top three reasons why men cheat, with three disclaimers: not all men, not all marriages and it is never your fault.
1. Someone to talk to
Why they chose to pay thousands of dollars to an escort rather than see a counsellor, even I found baffling and did point this out several times. 'I don't want to be judged,' was always the answer.
2.  They miss foreplay.
3. You had an affair.
4. Seeing an escort doesn't mean they don't love you
They don't want to leave you for another woman, and they most certainly don't want to run off with an escort (and no escort in the history of this earth would ever want to run off with your husband either – that's like taking your work home with you). Men are like puppies that chew your shoes, they just can't help themselves. Wait until I tell you the reasons women see male escorts. Now that will blow your mind."
Escorts have a different dynamic than streetwalkers, though

Uber driver fatally shot by woman who thought she was being kidnapped - "A woman accused of shooting her Uber driver in West Texas after mistakenly believing she was being kidnapped into Mexico has been charged with murder, authorities said.  Phoebe Copas, 48, who is from Tompkinsville, Kentucky, was visiting her boyfriend in El Paso, Texas, when the driver was shot June 16. The El Paso Police Department said Copas shot 52-year-old Daniel Piedra Garcia in the head while he was driving her to a location in far southeast El Paso.  According to a complaint affidavit, Copas saw traffic signs that read “Juarez, Mexico,” during her ride and falsely believed she was being kidnapped and taken to Mexico. El Paso is on the U.S.-Mexico border across from Juarez... Copas is accused of grabbing a silver and brown handgun from her purse and shooting Piedra in the back right side of his head, according to the affidavit. The vehicle crashed into roadway barriers before coming to a stop on the freeway.  The area where the car crashed was "not in close proximity of a bridge, port of entry or other area with immediate access to travel into Mexico," the affidavit says. "The roadway (Copas) was traveling on is a normal route to drive to the destination requested."  Before calling 911, police say, Copas took a photo of Piedra after he was shot and sent it to her boyfriend via text message. Officers arrived at the scene and saw Copas being helped out of the car by her boyfriend.  Copas then dropped everything she was holding in her hands to the ground, including a brown and silver handgun"
When you both hype up guns for "self defence" and terrify people about how "dangerous" it is to be a woman...
Clearly he needed a gun to defend himself
Weid. The media tell us that if you're a minority with a gun, the police are going to shoot you when they see you

Meme - "Not to be romantic but does anyone want to come over and do karaoke with me *vibrator*"

Meme - "Bet she bought that tiny car to compensate for her huge pussy. *blonde with small red car*"
Of course, a man posting this must have a tiny dick

Meme - "who said big girls cant rise.."
"Just ask kevin, one ride changed his life *wheelchair*"

Dear Annie: My wife didn’t mind spending my money, but now that she makes more than me she has a problem sharing - "All the years when I was the sole breadwinner, my salary was “our money.” Now that she makes the lion’s share, her salary is “her money.” She expects me to pay my expenses with my own salary. For instance, I recently had an expensive car repair done. She spotted me the cash, but she wants me to pay her back. Never mind the fact that for a long time my car was our only car, and she put half the miles and wear and tear on it herself."

Gender Differences in Vote Choice: Social Cues and Social Harmony as Heuristics - "Some parties are more popular among men, while other parties attract more female voters. This article proposes that these differences can be partially explained by two recurring gender differences in the socio-psychological literature. It argues that men’s generally lower sensitivity to social cues makes them more likely to vote for stigmatized and small parties, whereas women’s greater concern with social harmony is expected to make them less likely to vote for extreme parties. The models are tested at the individual and party levels using three waves of Comparative Study of Electoral Systems data from twenty-eight countries. Ceteris paribus, men are more likely than women to vote for parties that are socially stigmatized or ideologically extreme. This has consequences for the current understanding of gender gaps in voting, and reiterates that voting has important social aspects."
So women are more likely to promote social conformity, and men are more likely to be mavericks
Via Study: Women more likely to vote for parties that celebrities, friends, and mass culture approve of - Voice of Europe

Meme - "MERMAID PROBLEMS
UNDERWATER "Looking good today, girls!"
ON THE SURFACE *droopy breasts*"

The Right Guy Is Already Here | Know Your Meme - "The Right Guy Is Already Here refers to a two-panel meme format in which a woman rejects a man trying to "be the right guy for her" and responds that "the right guy" is already there, with a certain character standing behind her back. Originating from a 2018 webcomic by Sundae Kids, the format gained popularity among Spanish-speaking users in August 2020, followed by global popularity in October 2020."
This got changed a lot for the single mother at the door with half-black kids meme

Staceyann Chin: why chasing straight women still thrills me - "There may be a thousand reasons why lesbians love the thrill of a straight girl. Maybe women who chase women possess the same rabid ego we despise in straight men, the same ego that makes a person go giddy at the thought of being "the first" for the straight girl in question. The heterosexual terrain of her flesh, untouched by other dyke hands, smacks of the virgin narrative. Who wouldn't want to be "the first"? Who doesn't like what feels like a conquest? A win?  Maybe it is the thrill of conversion"
It's bad for men to try to convert lesbians, but lesbians who try to convert straight women are brave and stunning. You can't influence someone to change his sexuality so all these women were really bi - they just didn't know it (what they have to say about themselves be damned)

One in five Gen Z adults identifies as LGBTQ, Gallup finds - "Gen Z women are roughly 3 times more likely than men to identify as LGBTQ and Millennial women are about two times as likely than men to identify as such, according to Gallup."
Of course this is just a coincidence and women are just naturally more likely to be queer, because grooming is definitely not a thing and doesn't work.
No true lesbian puts sugar in her porridge, so even if they say they are lesbian, if later in life they identify as straight or bi, it means they were never lesbian in the first place. Ironically this has a strong parallel with Christians who renounce their faith. They were never true Christians after all

Meme - "Kissing her LIPS *making out*
Kissing her L I P S *ecstasy*"

Meme - Echo @TheEcho13: "can men please stop trying to be influencers we need electricians and mechanics I'm begging you"
Anthony S @Anthonysmalla8: "Can females stop being onlyfan models we need mothers not whOres I'm begging you"

Meme - Allyssa Ann: "It makes me physically ill to think about how $5k could literally fix all my problems in life but for others, it's just pocket change
holy shit after making this status, two guys messaged me up about buying content, and it hasn't even been posted for two fucking minutes. I DO NOT SELL CONTENT ANYMORE. Holy shit how many times do I have to say this. Give me money for free or fuck off"
Liliana Lauderdale: "It was nasty how many men messaged me offering money for nudes when I mentioned something about medical debt (I had it removed) but dude what a nasty thing to do. "I see this woman is desperate financially. Let's see if we can get her to do sexual things for money""
Clearly men need to give women money for nothing

Meme - LifeMathMoney I Real Advice For... @LifeMathMoney: "I don't have a problem with girls doing OnlyFans. I just won't marry them. It's that simple. You can do what you want, but I have my standards. Somehow this makes them angry. They expect you to "accept them" and "not judge them". This is not how the real world works."
Addendum: Female entitlement!

Meme - "Dating a girl whose ex was broke be cool af. I buy her a bag of chips and sum soda and she think I'm the one"

Meme - Em Kujo: "Please learn boundaries. You buy content from me, I'm not your girlfriend or some weird sexual partner. Its consumer and product."
"i wouldnt call you a a product, but if you insist"
"bruh what"
Feminists keep claiming you shouldn't objectify women, but many women love to objectify themselves

Meme - "Girls: OMG why isn't he texting me back?
Boys trying to figure out how to respond to "Lo!":"

Meme - "About Me
Swipe right ONLY if you meet the criteria below:
- Must be 5"10+
- Must make at least 80,000+ AND looking for other sources of income
- Must share your location and social media passwords with me
- You aren't allowed to have any female friends without my permission
- Must be financially stable and are against loans, mortgages
- Must be dominant, kind, sympathetic, funny, and family oriented
- You are ok with me taking a girls trip
I'm looking for something serious so please don't wast my time
Relationship Type: Monogamy"
Why would a dominant guy put up with this? Would a guy who put up with this be dominant?

Meme - Pretty Thandiwe Khumalo: "Good guys are boring for us when we are still fresh. They are not entertaining and mentally challenging. They can't be themselves always trying to impress us while we want real men. Good guys are only good to be stepfathers after the hoe phase. After tiredness of running with guys who make us wet. Good guys are for stability after the prime of a woman, that is why we can manipulate then saying good Men raise another man's kids."

Meme - "I've been dating this guy, but he has a cat that he's had for a few years and personally I think he's way too attached to it and affectionate about it. Sometimes he'll get home and sees his cat and goes, "there's my girl!" and pet her when I'm like right there in the same room. This just seems like way too much attention for a grown man to be lavishing on a cat of all things. Do you think I could suggest he get rid of it?"
"Take a second, breathe, then think. You're jealous of a cat..."
"and she thinks he's the one with a problem"

Meme - "Will this new female video game protagonist be universally adored? Or will incels come out of the basement to make crude memes about her?"
"Y'know Amy, calling a man an incel means you only value him based on his sexual activity. And furthermore it means you think women are just sex objects to boost a man's body count."

Meme - tiffany @tiffany_tran7: "One time I called my boyfriend dumb cause he took the bus instead of the metro to work (bus takes longer) and he hit me with take the bus so can call u everyday before work I don't get signal on the metro" and then I realized I am dumb and I think about that a lot"

Meme - "My husband lost his job and I'm considering leaving him. My husband is a plastic surgeon, and he previously made 500-700k a year with bonuses at his practice. He was recently let go due to covid reducing plastic surgery patient load. He's a doctor and has only been able to find general practice work. His highest offer has been 250k and he's considering accepting the offer. I know we need money but I don't want him to get used to working a low salary and not working hard to get back up to the mid 6's that we accustomed. He used to give me a a month allowance which has now been slashed to 3k. I had to stop getting my nails, hair and salon services. My monthly shopping has been reduced significantly. I know he might recover, but he might not, and also know my worth and what I am accustomed. I feel just gross having to accept this sort of lifestyle. I know there are other men at his old practice that clear more than 500k a year and there's no reason I can't get one of those men. We don't have kids yet, and I just don't want to settle for some loser with mediocre ambitions. What should I do? I'm afraid if I leave him too soon I might find myself in a even more difficult place. Please advise. (I know I am a mod here, but even I need advice also.)"
"WHAT A LOSER. HE SHOULD GIVE YOU 240K AND LIVE ON 10K UNTIL HE GETS A BETTER JOB"

Meme - "PUBLIC HOUSING FOR WOMEN WHO CAN'T FINANCIALLY SUPPORT THEIR CHILDREN *Public housing*
PUBLIC HOUSING FOR MEN WHO CAN'T FINANCIALLY SUFPORT THEIR CHILDREN. *jail*"

Fran on Twitter - "Having a boyfriend is great because I always have someone to gossip to and he won’t tell anyone because he wasn't listening in the first place"

Meme - "Females dignity and self-respect leaving their body once they get on a yacht *Winnie the Pooh*"

Meme - "What do you do for work?"
"I have neuropathy so I don't work. Im on disability."
"Ohh ok. I drive a semi truck"
"You're a truck driver? Yikes"
"Why yikes? You're literally on disability lol"

Meme - "The moment Ash realized that there are better things than catching Pokemon *looking at Misty's ass*"

Meme - Allison @AllisonR: "Maybe if u guys hodl'd women like u hodl your coins u would have gfs by now"
Ari Paul @AriDavidPaul: "So....maintain a diversified portfolio of a dozen? And lend them out to other people?"
Allison @AllisonR: "Wait I didn't think this through"

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