Tuesday, June 27, 2023

Links - 27th June 2023 (1 - Women: When A Lady Says No, She Means...)

I've decided to consolidate various examples featured on this blog from 2013 to today of women saying one thing but meaning another because so many liberals are unable to imagine that some women play games, and insinuate or claim that I am a rapist for not understanding consent, or call me hateful/an incel. This also has meaningful implications for affirmative consent:

Cydni Beer on Twitter - "My husband called on his way home from work to ask if I wanted a cheeseburger. I said I didn’t, I would just have one bite of his. He brought me home my own cheeseburger and I think this is why our marriage has lasted over 14 years now."

Meme - "When i send the breakup hoping he'll fight for me and he just says "ok""

Meme - KeletsoM @KeletsoMss: "Who noticed that men are no longer persuasive? Once they ask you out and you say No..... Case close"
precious @preciou97410348: "They give up fast hle. sometimes "no" just means beg me dude let's see how far you could go"

Meme - "Mickey @Mickeyy254: "3 years ago i went to "The Churchil show" next to me sat a very calm , bearded , tall , nice -smelling guy. A small chit chat here and there and finally asked for my phone number .
After some days he invited me for a lunch date in which i turned down. He finally gave up since i was really playing hard to get lol (guess he got fed up and deleted my number or something)
At some point i lost his contacts too but i do have a strong feeling that man was the love of my life. He was exactly my type that one.
So my question is , Why do men give up so quick?"

Meme - "when the man i rejected 115 times posts his new gf"

Meme - a @23luvr: "NOOO THE GUY I KEPT REJECTING FINALLY MOVED ON"
Mims @_imyour_duck: "Lmaoooooo. I rejected this sweet guy various times then couple months later he's dating someone new (saw him on the train with her after school) then once I got home I cried"

Meme - a @23luvr: "NOOO THE GUY I KEPT REJECTING FINALLY MOVED ON"
Xahanaa @xoliliaai: "That's how u know he wasn't serious in the first place"

Meme - "Do you notice that men are no longer persuasive? Once they ask you out on a date and you say No. That's it"

Meme - "I rejected him now he's with someone that actually loves him i can't breathe y'all *crying emojis*"
"When men hurt you, they make sure. Uxolo, mama. He didn't deserve you."

Meme - Just Zee @Zizipho_Majama: "I dated my baby dad for 8years. Best relationship of my life. NEVER cheated. He proposed marriage early this year. I declined. Guy moved on. it hurts, it hurts so bad. I did communicate my reasons nd I thought he understood kanti...."

🎶KrystalinA on Instagram: “Yeah i blocked you... but did you email me? Stand outside my house with roses? Attach a note to a pigeon? No? OH! Ok... 👸🐝 We will…” - "Yeah i blocked you... but did you email me?
Stand outside my house with roses?
Attach a note to a pigeon?
No? OH! Ok..."

Florida woman shares ways she 'tests' men on a first date - "Gabby (@respectfullygabby) has some clear criteria for prospective romantic interests, and she will automatically rule out a man as a match if he doesn't meet the bar she sets... 'First thing's first: him paying for the date. Let’s stop this conversation and the back and forth, the 50/50, the bullsh***. First date, he needs to be paying 100 per cent. And if he's not then goodbye,' she says. Her second test is about ensuring a man cares that she gets home safe — even if she tells him not to worry about it... 'As we are leaving, we both had Ubers going separate ways. His Uber came first, and he was like, "Oh, no, I'll wait for you." Me, in my head, I'm like, "Oh no, you don't have to wait for me." Being kind,' she says. 'And this man gets into his Uber and takes off. It is four a.m. in Miami, Florida, where no good is to come. Everything is shut down and I'm standing by myself in the middle of the f***ing street,' she complains. 'Immediately no. If you don’t care about my safety and making sure I get into my Uber safely, you’re done. 'And then if you don't go ahead and double check I made it safely? Bye,' she says. 'This man failed my protection test, so he never heard from me again... Finally, she tests men to see if they'll give her their clothes if she's cold. 'When we're out, if you have, like, a jacket on, or some kind of overshirt, I will always, without a doubt, say that I'm cold. 'Cause I wanna see if you will give me the shirt off your back, and if you don’t, you’re dead to me' 'And then if you do, I won't take it. 'Cause h**s don't get cold.' Gabby's video has earned plenty of approving comments, including one who insisted: 'He needs to pay for every date! I've never paid in my entire life."

Meme - "I didnt try to pursue this lady after she told me she wasn't interested.
"Okay, sorry for wasting your time."
"Worst response ever. So, okay then."
"Have a good night."
"Wow. Any different response would have gotten you far. But those last 2 responses..... grow up and have a good life. I told you that you were too young and this is why. A man that actually gave a shit would pursue me.. yet, I called you out by saying that I don't want you to spend time just cuz you're lonely and that me and my kids have gone through much. Your response is.... wow..... peace out. And you wondered why I wanted to talk to you before we met."
"So you reject someone and then expect them to try harder? Thats a thing sane people do."

Meme - steph @hunnywh0re: "went on a date w this dude last night. smh"
'hey i had a great time last night but i think we should just be friends'
'i was thinking the same thing'
'LMAOOO
that's not supposed to be ur response'
'i don't chase women i chase this paper baby.'"

Meme - "I'm not applying pressure to no woman. Shit sound like harassment to me. She either wanna fwm or she don't. Effort increases when mutual interest is shown."
"Men are supposed to chase women tho.... tf happened to that"
"I don't know who told you that, but any man with real value not finna do that. I'm glad men are starting to wake up and realize that women need to show mutual effort."

мємє on Twitter - "If I block you.... You’re suppose to call private, this generation of niggas so boring and lazy "

Meme - "A guy asked me out last week and i told him "NO" .I wanted him to try harder. Why didn't he try again?"
"Because you said No"

Gracey 🦋 on Twitter - "Who noticed that men are no longer persuasive? Once they ask you out and you say NO……… Case close"
"Becz they have asked others as well. They will somehow get lucky with one of those. If a man truly wants you, he won't give up that easily."

Jessie on Twitter - "Prayers for my husband who very tragically got me nothing for our anniversary when I specifically told him I wanted nothing for our anniversary."

Jill Biden: Why I Was Initially Reluctant to Marry Joe Biden - "Jill Biden: Why Joe Had to Propose 5 Times Before I Said Yes—And What Finally Changed My Mind"
When a lady says no, she means...
Of course, those liberals who believe that asking a woman if she wants to have sex with you more than once is rape will have no problem with this (one called me a rapist for pointing out that women can change their minds if asked more than once)

This is crossposted

Seekers of Land Entertainment - "Never marry or date  a guy that touches you once then you say no and he doesn’t try again, They lack determination!!" The ‘Ai Stead Mai’ S’pore Love Story in the 90s - YouTube - "Ah Hock loved Michelle and asked her, ‘Ai stead mai?’ in the 90s. Today, he tried again but would it work?"

Meme - "Marry a Guy Who Will Email You When U Block Him"
"Marry a Woman That Doesn't Play These Kind of Games"

A guy asked me out today and I told him 'no', but I wanted him to try harder. Why didn't he try again? - Quora

Women's "Token Resistant" and Compliant Sexual Behaviors are Related to Uncertain Sexual Intentions and Rape - "Muehienhard and Hollabaugh reported that 39% of college women engaged in "token resistance" (said "no" but wanted to have sex). Many of these women's reasons for their behavior explained a sexual refusal but not token resistance. The authors hypothesize that many token resistant women honestly refused but later decided to have sex. Evidence indicates that token resistant behavior occurs on or after the 11th date, whereas resistant behavior (said "no" and meant no) occurs earlier. In addition, 83% of token resistant women had more than one sexual intention during the token resistant episode. They said they resisted or were uncertain before they said "no" and neant yes. The authors conclude that most token resistant behavior is a change of intention that is poorly recalled because of memory consolidation. Women's compliant sexual behavior (agreeing to unwanted sex) occurs for relationship maintenance reasons. Both behaviors are related to women's histories of rape."
Note: Cross-posted as this isn't an anecdote of a woman displaying this behavior

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